I am in a orthodox jewish community and dated a man who was a LONG time user, 18 yrs .. after his wife died... he has been taking this stuff ever since. He has terrible mood changes and says he can't feel anything for me. I had to end our dating. I want to get him help but no one in this community is willing to do anything . There are virtually NO 12 step programs I DON'T know what to do for this poor man!