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Hello,

I haven't been able to get rock hard in a while, even when masturbating. When my girlfriend and I have sex my penis is hard enough to have sex but its not as big as it could be. During sex i lose my erection and we end up stopping. When shes on top i lose it faster. I can keep my penis harder when we do it doggy style but still not my fullest :(. Her vagina starts to hurt after a while in that position so i have to do it in a different way. When we change i can go for a little bit then i end up losing my erection. I haven't been to the doctors for a check up in years. I am 17 (almost 18 ) and i shouldn't be having an erection problem at all. I am about to take viagra! (just kidding). Could this be a blood flow problem, or something else?

Thanks
Do you masterbate more than 5 times a day?
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Hmm... I have a similar issue, but it usually only presesnts itself when I'm tired or just 'not in the mood'
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i am 36 years old. If I am with my girl friend and we are not going to engage in sex, I have a full and hard erection but once she feels like having sex I will lose my erection immediately I want to penetrate her.
Please what should I do as am about to marry her.
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No, it's not blood flow. But it is something else.



You may find that you're having sex too frequently.



There's a pattern to what you say is going on when you loose your erection.

When you're on top, or in control, you're more firm than another position.



It wouldn't hurt to have a doctor's visit, especially as you haven't in a long while, but it's doubtful if this is a physical condition.



Have you tried changing things up? Going to a different location? Renting a motel room? Tried a new sex toy, or dressed up for making love?



Love, and sex, doesn't stand on the same old same old every time. Change things up and both of you may find it more exciting. And, you may find that being the more active partner will keep the excitement up for you!
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Take a pill to make it stay hard or have her hold it in her hand & play with it. DON'T CUM IN HER HAND.
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