Lower Stomach and lower back pain, tiredness, and breast are sore! Is it too early to tell?

Hi Becky and my beautiful blooming ladies! I used to tickle my boys feet so they would move! It is SUCH a releif when they drop! WOW 31 weeks!!! That is unreal isn't it?! What does Alissa Stand for?

My son and I aren't that great right now, Connor - my youngest - is having major surgery on This Tuesday! And in the last 2 weeks, my doctor has found 10 cancerous lesions on my face and had to have them cut off for biopsies!! The day that happened my eldest son was arrested, and is presently in jail for youth! And we HOPE and PRAY that he will get out on Monday - in time for his brothers surgery! To say it's been HELL is an understatement! I actually had a terrible panic attack on Tuesday - due to the judge holding over the date and thinking that my son had given up! We just came home from seeing him! Nothing like seeing your child in jail!!! BUT I hope this has smacked him into waking up! I have been sitting in court throughout these last 2 weeks, and you see ALL types of kids there, the underlying factor is that in addition too us, there has been about 3 other parents there to support their child! Most are in Protective Services, or in Group homes! And NO parents! It is HEARTBREAKING, Embarrassing, gut wrenching, intolerable! That there are SO many young people with TERRIBLE issues! And I felt like such a failure being there, I thought "There I am giving advice, meanwhile my son has become addicted to Coccaine! When did THAT happen?" I looked at him today - and he has a beard now because they don't give them razors! And one second there's my boy with his blue eyes and model looks, the next his eyes go dark, thinking and talking about NOT getting out of jail! It is AWFUL! I keep reevaulating what I did or didn't do! I can't think of anything - other than allowing him too much! If he gave me that "Look" he would be allowed to stay out, and ignore the rules! As one of the sheriffs stated "This sense of entitlement, that ALL the kids have now" Which is true! We GIVE GIVE and GIVE and they don't have a clue how to stand on their own 2 feet! That's why I LOVE talking about babies! And remembering when mine were white, soft and innocent!

Firsy of all Bambie I am so sorry to hear about what is going on with you and your boys I will be praying that the cancerous lesions will go away and the biopsies will show something different. And Iknow your boy who is having surgery will be ok I will pray for him to make a full recovery from this and I am so sorry to hear about your son in jail..I just hate that you guys have to go through this and he has that problem hopefully him being in jail he will think about what he has done. And maybe when he gets out you could see if he will do a clinic for that and I really do hope he is out too for you and himself and the one having the surgery so he can be there for that. Don't even think you are a failure because you are not you have helped me and so many kids and adults out there..you well get throught this and your sons also. I know it must be hard to have to go to jail and see your kid like that and so many other kids to..because I really don't know how I could take it..but you, you are strong and just keep that up because you are a wonderful mother and friend and me I don't know what I would of done if I didn't have you to talk to and get me through my time of need. And that is so true about the sense of entitlement becaue growing up were I was a girl my dad or mom would not let me do anything or go anywhere and my brother they did and now he is doin gthe same thing as your son. Since my dad passed away a little over a year ago he has turned to doing that and I seem to not be able to help him and it makes me sad to hear that my brother is not the only one because some days I wish the cops would pick him up and talk him to jail. But I just don't want him to harm hisself. you are sucha brave mom and women and I love you for that because you are like my mom that I never had. keep me updated about you and your sons and I will be praying for you guys and I hope the surgery goes great.

Well we let our 6 year old and 4 year old pick the name Alissa and they both agreed on it so I really don't know were they came up with it at so we throught it was cute so we are saying now the kids named the baby. And we are going with Sky because we think it was under the stars and sky when she was made..lol camping and hiking when we had a brake from the other kids..LOL so she will Be named Alissa Sky. Thanks so much Bambie and remember stay strong!!! :-)

WOW alot of reading ot do well i think i might come on here tomorrow and have a good read .......
i have come on here to see if you lovely ladies could give me Some advice i saw a midwife the other day ... not mine but any way i heard our baby's heartbeat and it brought another tear to my eyes Yes all i do is Cry if i am doing the washing i start crying i wak up in the middle of the night crying hehe

any way to make this short and sweet the midwife gave me two reading for babies heart beat she saind the top is 162 and the bottom is 155 what does she mean ??? by these 2 different readings i am not worried just curious what this mean with my babies i only had 1 reading so i just a bit confused ... well i am sitting here with a can of creamed rice so i am going to go and open it warm it up and put some ice cream on it and then go to bed so i shall see you all in the morning BYE BYE

HEy HunnieChild! Are you having twins? Is that why she gave you to readings on a heartbeat? I don't really know what she means too..Myabe Bambie will.. :-) :-) So how far along are you? And I hope all is going well.

It's a Girl!!!!! XD ;-) What she is saying is that when the baby was resting she was the lower rate, and when she was moving it was higher! That number is a GREAT for the babies heart rate!

Also I will tell you guys a funny about the crying thing! My husband is NOT like me! I think from my typing you can guess that I'm a bit of a blabber mouth! 8-| XD So I talk to ANYONE ANYTIME ANYWHERE! My husband NO! so I was VERY pregnant with my 1st and we were walking down a mall, and a man shouted out my husbands name, we walked over and my husband shook his hand and didn't introduce me! The guy was looking at me like "and who is this?" so my husband didn't say a word! i walked away into a department store and started CRYING in the quilt section! My husband came to find me and I said "You are EMBARRASSED of me because I'm SO Fat!!!!" :'( He's like "NO! I didn't know his name, so I didn't know what to say to you to introduce him!" I was cryng SO bad that this woman came up to my husband shook her head and tutted and rubbed my arm!!!! ;-) XD XD He was like this o.O :$ I cried ALL the time! With my 2nd not so much! Aren't hormones fun?!!!! NOT!

Hey you guys!!! I'm sorry I havent been on here in a while well I'm 19wks now! And guess what IT'S A GIRL!!!!! I'm due November 15th! I'll message you guys later I'm going swimming it's hot out here in Lake Charles, Louisiana! I hope all of your pregnancies are going great! I love you all talk to you later!!! :-D :-D :-D :-D

Hi honey! So glad to hear from you! Anothe girl wow!! So you will be pregnant in the summer in Louisiana?!!!! GOOD LUCK WITH THAT!!!! ;-) XD XD XD 8) RU anywhere near the terrible oil slicks? that is SO horrible!

Thanks for that i was thinking that she found two heart beats hehe but i thought she would have told me if there was hehe maybe she told me that as well but i was so excited that i was concentrating on not to cry lol ...... thanks i was hoping for a girl i want to find out in 7 weeks time but i dont i want the surprise at the finish line

Hey brittany! I am so happy that you are having a girl :-D . I think it is the summer for GIRL's!! Everyone I know is having girl's. So Hunniechild I am wondering what you are having :-) And it is so hot here too I just walk outside with my kids and I think I am going to die 8-| I have been trying to get them outside all day and I can only take about 15 mins then it is back in the house so I am waiting till this evening so we can all go out and do some swimming too. It's 98 here in West Virginia and the kids also think its way to hot to be out. Man I don't know if it is just me but I feel like I am on fire even in the cool house.LOL well girls I got my 31 week check up tomorrow so I will ost back later. And Brittany I am so happy for you I hope all is going well.

And Bambie are you ok? And your sons how are they doing?

LOVE YOU GUYS!!! :-)

Hey Becky I am Wondering what i am having as well i have gone totally pink here i went out and had some retail therapy today cause i was felling a bit Blue lol cause i am putting weight on my Bum and Hips ... and it is making mefeel quiet horrible with all my pimple out break Grrr they say this is usually when you get your glow hmmmm i am just wondering if that mean MORE pimples and Big hips hehe XD Any way but all that was standing out was the Colour BABY Pink which suits me just well i usually wear baby blue and dark purple also i have a few black items for my pants hehe

We are in the middle of winter here so i have got a semi nice day have got some showers in between the nice warmish sun today

Well my belly is rumbling and it is 2 pm i cant seam to find any think that can hold me off till at least till afternoon tea but it seams to be i need more than 6 meals a day hehe i have my breakfast,morning tea,lunch,afternoon tea,Dinner and supper, i seam to need a snack in between,

Right i best Go Will be back in a few days time to see How we are all going

Hope Everyone is doing well ...

SEE YAAAAAAA

Yeah it sucks!!! It's very hot the only thing you can do is swim out here to stay cool and to stay in the house as well lol! I think so too Becky everyone I know are having girls as well!! Hunniechild what would you like to have a girl or a boy! or it doesnt matter as long as its healthy! Well you guys it's great talking bbut I'm getting a lil tired so I'll talk later love you guys and hope all is well. :-D :-D

Brittany i am hopping for a girl to complete our family and also because it will just make our day cause we were wanting a November baby but that didnt happen I am also just wanting a Healthy baby as well .... i am in the process of trying to give out the cancer sticks i have cut right back from smoking a 30grm in a week to making it last over a week and having only 2-3 a day 3 being a real bad day, i am finding it Hard but i know it is for the best for the baby and my health

well it is 9 am so i best go and move my bum and get dressed for the day well be back ion a few days time and will see how you all are
BYE BYE

Need help my BB's are hurting they have a burning feeling it is hard to explain it is the feeling you get when you need to let down your milk is this normal as you can see i am 14 weeks 2 days and i have got relief with a cold flannel is this ok or should i stop and let my midwife know of this feeling in one of my BB's???

I for got to add that they are feeling quiet warm to touch i have had the discomfort in early pregnancy but i got reilef with weraing a supportive spots like bra to bed and wearing a maternity bra during the day

Ask your midwife, BUT with the warmth I think you have just more blood! BUT sometimes you can start having an infection! An old wives tale works a charm! Boil cabbage leaves till they are soft, and then when they cool down enough for them to be comfortable place them WHOLE over your breasts - these help SO much!

My youngest son was a trooper and he is now home! Which is awesome and I go to court this morning to see about my eldest!!!!! I tell ya, I chose the wrong week to stop drinking! ;-) XD

Bye for now my plump curvacious lovelies!