Lower Stomach and lower back pain, tiredness, and breast are sore! Is it too early to tell?

Hey I was talking about my period so the 22nd I should know because that is when my period is suppost to come so thats in like6 more days....but the cramping is just there and its been doing that all day. But I did make a appt today like my docotr wants its at 2:45 so I guess I will see then but I still think it is to soon to tell. Am I just wasting my money or should I go to the doctor? Because I want to tell my husband on Christmas if I am.

Hey Bambi! yeah it was due on the 16th. But nothing happened! The cramping and bleeding stopped Saturday or Sunday and when I say bleeding it was like spotting for like 2 days it was like a brownish color! But yeah I think I'm going to do that and go in to the doctor and see what they say! Thanks and LOTS of HUGS to you as well! :-D

Hey Becky! Yeah I think it was to soon for me to test! But I'm just gonna go to the doctor like you and Bambi said and see what they say.No I don't think there was I looked very hard Because when I was last time before I had my miscarriage that's how the test came out! But I think I'm going to make me an appointment for next week on Monday that's my off day. So that's what I'll do and I'll keep you guy's posted and let you know what's going on! Thank you

Hi guys! SORRY I got confused with both of you, then I reread it!!! Sorry becky for startlling you!!! I DO want you to go to the doctors, granted it's early, but whenever a doctor wants to see you, that's another thing! Cramping is TOTALLY normal, like I said before just be REALLY wary for EXCESSIVE pain! HPT are becoming more and more advanced and there are some that state they can detect the HCG levels several days before your period is due! So this way if you go and get a blood test it MIGHT just show now! Keeping in mind you have another 4 or 5 days so you are right on the line here!

Brittany, the women in your family have a HUGE impact on what you are going to be like - such as early periods, early menopause etc. As I stated before honey, they didn't have periods as in a period! And you could be following along those lines BUT the thing is EVERY woman and EVERY pregnancy is different, so even though your mom and aunt had vaginal bleeding doesn't mean that you should accept it as that! I'm obviously getting confused here, but you stated that your doctors test was positive?!!! Did you mention that to me before? And when was that done? I can't remember that! Now IF your doctor took a test recently and it was a blood test then that will be definitive, There are such things as False Negatives and False Positives, it usually comes down to taking the test too early or not reading the results correctly! Just to be sure I would really like you to go and get a blood test! Because of your bleeding - as I stated this COULD have been your period - so this will show once and for all! With a blood test 3 weeks is totally enough time to tell! So please let us know honey and as usual hugs!!!

Becky! If the test shows positive today, it's only another week to keep it secret! And IF it shows negative, doesn't mean you aren't pregnant! So it's up to you of course, but like I said it is always a good idea to see a doctor on a regular basis - for overall health! Is the pain increasing with the cramping?

Hey Bambi! Yes I did tell you that it was a while back when i mentioned that! But all that happened last year when I had my miscarriage! But I have not went to the Doctor yet! I am going to make me an appointment Monday December 21st if I can! The bleeding only lasted for about 4 days and it was very lite and it was a spotting kind of period. But I am going to do what you said and get to the Doctor ASAP to find out if i am or not. Thanks again and hugs!!! :-D :-D :-D :-D I will keep you both posted!

Hey Bambie..I got back from the doctors office and they did a blood test. They said I will have to call about 10:30 tomorrow morning and find out if I am or not. I asked the women that was taking my blood about pregnancy test and she told me that since I am like 5 days away it should show the truth and she said if it don't then I am not pregnant. is she right about that about the blood test? because that scares me!lol and no the cramping is not bad its like its just there..I just feel like I am going to throw up......and my boobs feel like lighting pains running threw them, Do you know what I mean? ? The women that was taking my blood said when she got pregnant she went in a had a pee test done and it came back negative then she said she went to the store and got 3 pregnancy test and took them 3 days later and she told me that when she took it one line was pink and the other line was white then she said she took the other two the next day and one line was pink and the other very faint pink so she said she was pregnant. I thought that when test do that it is a false reading. I have not bought any pegnancy test yet I am going to pick up a couple tomorow so I will have for the 22nd to test. I just hope they turn out right and not faint because that would be negative right..if it is faint? but again that women said hers was postive. But I really hope it turns out postive.

But the reason the doctor wanted to see me is to keep a eye out on my cyst on my left and right side he just checked them and was just feeling around on my stomach to see if they felt enlarged and he said everything seems normal. So I guess everything is ok with my cysts.. :-D So I will let you know what the test says tomorrow. But if it comes out negative does that mean I am not since its a blood test? which to me I thought if you got a blood test it would show.So what do you think? Thanks and hugs to you too.




And brittany I am praying that you are and hope your doctors appt goes good next week.and yes please keep posted..thats a good thing you are going to see your doctor. And good luck.

Hi Becky! The blood test is definitive, BUT that said it too HAS to have enough HCG levels to detect pregnancy! IF it shows negative tommorrow, wait a few more days and then take HPT! IF it is positive itsa GO!

Faint lines - IF done correctly - are positives! The only time that these are misleading is IF you wait too long to look at the test! Then they are called Vapor lines which means that the air and the test itself turns into a positive looking test because of waiting too long!

So I will be waiting till tommorrow to hear from you! ONCE again!!! fingers crossed, and just remember that a neg doesn't mean a neg!!! OK? But a Pos means a POS!!!! So lets wish for a POS!!! +++++++++++++++ = :-D

Hey Bambie! Thanks again and I will let you know tomorrow and if it is negative I will wait and do the HPT..And I hope I am and keep..keeping your fingers crossed. Thanks so much for your help.

Thank you Bambi! And good luck Becky I'm keeping my fingers crossed and praying for you!!! HUGS to you both and thank you both for the support you give and show me!! :-D :-D :-D :-D

Hey I forgot to tell you last night I was sick I vomit alot last night Sorry I know tmi!! It was about 11:30 I had ate some chicken and not even 10 mins after it came right back up! That's the 2nd night that done happened to me! %-)

Hey Bambie and Brittany..guess what I am Pregnant!!!! :-D ;-) :O :-) My doctor said I was and that my HCG levels were very high..so what does that mean? I didn't ask her I was just like wow... :-) So am so excited I want to tell my friends...but got to wait..It is killing me to wait till Christmas to tell my hubby! :-D So do you guys know of any good ideas to tell him the news on christmas?

And Bambie....you are so right and thanks for all your help and If I have any problems I will let you know because you are the best!!!EVER!! And merry Christmas!!!

And brittany thanks for your help too..and I wish you luck because of you throwing up...go get the blood test done and lets see with you and keep us posted.

Thanks so much Bambie you have been like a mother to me because I have no mother or father...my daddy passed away last christmas and he would be so happy for me right night I miss him so much :'( But I got something to tell my family and my hubby. And my mom pretty much doesnt want anything to do with me or my family...but I am not to sad about that because she was no mom growing up....well anyhow I am so happy and I will keep you posted...Thanks again and what are my levels of HCG up?

An I forgot to mention that my daddy was a twin..but he died at birth like 5 hours later..is there a chance of me having twins since my levels are very high? Thanks for the support!!!

Hey Becky!!!!! I'm SO HAPPY for YOU!! Congrads!!!! :-D :-D :-D I would get him a Christmas card and tape the test on the card or get a gift box and put the test in it. Your very welcome! And I know how you feel about how your situation with your mom is like because my mom treats me the same way it's like i'm not even her child! But anyways I'm very happy for you and your family! :-D :-D And about your dad sorry to hear about that but the twin thing yes you could have a chance at having twins! Good luck with everything!! :-D :-D

Hey Brittany!!!!Thanks so much!!! :-D :-D And I am still hoping you are as well...My Best friend just called and said she was pregnant how werid is that!!!! :O :O :O But she is so excited her and her hubby..so I had to break the news to her that I am..but I feel really bad because I am not going to tell my hubby till christmas sowish me luck with that!!!! And yes my mom as never seen my other kids one is 5 and the other just over 3 years..she says its just a waste of time..but I don't care I know my dad would be so happy for us.So again thanks so much and your idea is good I might go with it. :-D :-D :-D :-D

Hey Becky!!!! Your very welcome!!! :-D :-D :-D And thank you I hope so too! Yeah that is weird! My Sister is 6 months pregnant now so if I am I'll be behind her! Yes he would be very happy for you guys!!! :-D And I'm happy I could help you with the Christmas gift idea! :-D :-D