I've been with my boyfriend for about 2 years and we've had a pretty good relationship. But the other day I found a ton of porn on his computer. About a year ago he told me that if he ever found porn on my computer he would break up with me and said that he didn't watch it! I check the dates on them, and he had downloaded them and watched them while I was in the other room!!!! When I confronted him about it, he got mad at me for going on his computer. But he couldn't give me a reason why he watched it, he just said everyone does it. I don't know what to do, I'm so confused. Should I be mad?
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Ya, you should be a little mad... first off, he shouldn't be tellin you to not look at it when he is and second he shouldn't get mad when you go on his computer. your his girlfriend..lol and his excuse for "everyone does it" is total bull sh*t juust so you know
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You have the right to be mad, after all he was dishonest with you. Nevertheless it is true that almost all men watch porn and probably hides it from their girlfriends. The reason is simple, men are a million times hornier than women. The urge is pretty damn powerful, in a way that women most likely can't understand.
If you want to keep him and build a stronger relationship with him, you have to embrace it. Try to accept the fact the he likes porn (way better than cheating...) and tell him that the only thing that bothers you is the fact that he lied about it. If you give him the filling that you are open minded enough for not getting upset when discovering the "dirty" details of his sexuality, you will gain both his trust and his heart. If you offer him to watch it together or try out a "porn like" sex position yourselves even better.
The thing is, he's going to do it whether you like it or not, so you should might as well become a part of it, and therefor a more significant part of him...
If you want to keep him and build a stronger relationship with him, you have to embrace it. Try to accept the fact the he likes porn (way better than cheating...) and tell him that the only thing that bothers you is the fact that he lied about it. If you give him the filling that you are open minded enough for not getting upset when discovering the "dirty" details of his sexuality, you will gain both his trust and his heart. If you offer him to watch it together or try out a "porn like" sex position yourselves even better.
The thing is, he's going to do it whether you like it or not, so you should might as well become a part of it, and therefor a more significant part of him...
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