So I've been with my boyfriend for a while now and he has fingers me often. I'm still a virgin so at first I just thought I was just really tight and it would get better but it hasn't at all. I almost hate when ever he does it now. I just wonder it I will ever find it pleasurable at all or if he's doing something wrong. What should i do??
Also, the other day he fingered me and later on, sticky brownish stuff came out, possibly blood. Now I'm really scared for him to go down there anymore and I have no clue what to do! Please help!!!
If it's hurting ---- HE'S DOING SOMETHING WRONG!!!!
Unless you want his finger(s) in there, there's no need for them to be in there.
Why not help him learn how to pleasure you by loving your external parts. Your vulva has wonderful parts that simply love to be caressed, licked, kissed, and treated with tenderness. Your clit is a great source of pleasure for you and it should be for him. To me there is nothing like the pleasure I get from seeing my wife enjoying the pleasure I am giving her by working outside her vagina.
If you (or he) just can't live without his fingers inside you, you need to have it well lubricated and his fingernails need to be trimmed and filed so they don't scrape or scratch the inside of your lovely vagina. Treat it with care, it's a beautiful thing. He should be rubbing it lovingly not slamming his fingers into it.
So work on this together with love and care and you will both have the best time of your lives.