Well how can you even expect sex? Some women here just don't like to be mean so they are holding back their thoughts but I think you need to hear this from someone unfiltered. Look, there is no way I can see you as a "real" man, sorry. I am going to stick up for your woman. You can't satisfy her sexually but you think you will magically satisfy another woman? Maybe that is your ego. It has been 4 years since she has even let you put it in her but you can't take a hint, so lets recap...
1.) You don't turn her on sexually
2.) She can't feel anything during sex with you
3.) She desires to have sex, just not with you
4.) She gets to have sex, you don't
I think you should focus on all of those things, especially the last one. Maybe you are a nice guy but just like the other woman said it is really hard to take you seriously as a man just knowing you have a tiny penis. I would guess that is where your girlfriend is at also. Do you feel like she has respect for you? Are you in charge of anything at all in the relationship? Does she seem considerate of your feelings in this matter?
1.) You don't turn her on sexually
2.) She can't feel anything during sex with you
3.) She desires to have sex, just not with you
4.) She gets to have sex, you don't
I think you should focus on all of those things, especially the last one. Maybe you are a nice guy but just like the other woman said it is really hard to take you seriously as a man just knowing you have a tiny penis. I would guess that is where your girlfriend is at also. Do you feel like she has respect for you? Are you in charge of anything at all in the relationship? Does she seem considerate of your feelings in this matter?
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I guess that is part of the problem. I don't really feel like she considers my feelings at all. At first when this all started, she usually went out with the other guy but then she started bringing him home. Now it's like she will come home and they go to the bedroom. The guy doesn't stay over but I get kicked out of the bedroom for sometimes a couple hours and sometimes ill end up falling asleep on the couch. Not only that but our walls are not very soundproof and I can hear them. Sometimes I leave for a bit but this is my place to sleep. So yeah I start thinking like doesn't she know I can hear them? Then that makes me think she doesn't really care that I can hear them having sex so does she even respect me at all? But then she will come get me and have me come sleep with her so it seems confusing to me.
When you guys say you can't see me as a real man, what do you mean exactly. Is it just in the bedroom? Anyone else have any feedback on this?
When you guys say you can't see me as a real man, what do you mean exactly. Is it just in the bedroom? Anyone else have any feedback on this?
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Actually, to be honest I am just under 3 inches, it is more like 2.7 inches but I suppose I like to round up lol
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LMAO...OMG same difference...anyways I wouldn't let you anywhere near my vagina with that thing...sorry but not sorry I kind of sympathize with your woman on this.
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I know its not your fault or anything but as a woman I would find it hard to get aroused by 2". I'm not saying there aren't other types of women out there but some of us really get turned on by thinking of our man's penis as being big, hard and masculine. I had to google and to try and see what a 2" penis looks like and honestly it came off as slightly humorous...i'm not sure why. I am pretty sure I would have a hard time taking you seriously if i saw your penis. I don't think you can please a woman.
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Your penis doesn't really have anything to do with you being a man as far as a person, except it might affect your confidence and personality. But I agree with the part about not being able to view you the same. It's one of those things where I might be attracted before but then if I saw you naked I would probably friend zone you. Oral and foreplay is nice, but I enjoy penetration too much to settle for less.
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Same here. Size shouldn't matter, but unfortunately, it does, at least for me. Firstly, there is just something very masculine about a large penis. A pinky just looks less masculine and therefore less attractive,which should not be a problem if you are very much in love. however, it will affect your sex life. my first boyfriend had more than 7 inches, which I took as average at the time, and ever since I just love being completely filled liked that.
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Try new stuff, again and again I'd say. But 2" is just too eenie weenie I suppose. Most of us prefer to moan of pleasure the moment your man enters you, instead of wondering whether your little boy has already gotten in or not.
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Well it isn't anything close to the size of a pinky...definitely not 7 inches though. What is the cut off size where it isn't masculine enough? Are you saying 3" would not be attractive to you?
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I guess I didn't realize it was that much of an issue. What do you mean by "little boy" though?
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I think she is just pointing out the difference between feeling like a man is entering us or a little boy...which in my case would be very unfulfilling. Basically, it sucks when you cant even tell when he has put it in or not, which unfortunately seems to be the case when it is small. But you can definitely feel it when a nice big man enters you, even from the first time he puts it in. I guess only a woman can really understand this...
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Couldn't agree more...Tiny penises are not arousing and sometimes just plain humorous. How can I expect to enjoy penetration when he can barely penetrate me? I've been in both situations and I can't go back to a small one. The other thing is that i feel that men who have a tiny one aren't getting sex very much and they seem to be finished after a few pumps. That is extremely frustrating!!! No more p***y for guys with little ones...end of story.
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Ok, but how small is too small to feel? I read that women's g-spot is like 2" inside so if i'm 2.7" then technically it should be enough to hit that? At what point or what size does it become an issue? Is there a particular size where you wouldnt be with a guy regardless of other things? Just curious on the female perspective...
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