My Chances of being pregnant?

Hi! Most women ovulate 14 days after the 1st day of their period! BUT that can change month to month - depending on stress, pills, diet, hormones, thus women getting pregnant at ANY time! The pull out method is of course less successful for getting pregnant, BUT it still can happen of course, and the odds go up while ovulating! It is called the "Natural Method" And is only successful, IF there is TOTAL control on the ejaculation - no chance of sperm in the precum - and NO sex the week of ovulation! Thus the higher failure rate of 30 - 40%! The spotting just depends on what this is! Is it a period? Is it ovulation? Is it implantation bleeding? Or is it just spotting before your period? THAT is the big question! Most women can tell if they are ovulating by a slight cramp - from the left or right - white stringy discharge! This all depends on what your cycle is like - so if you are a 28 day it will be ovulation 14 days after and then a period 14 days after that! Keeping in mind that the longer the lenght of your cycle, minus 14 days from your 1st day of your period - this will give you your supposed ovulation day! Is you husband using the pullout to stop conception and you want a baby:?

my period started yesterday afternoon and we had intercourse w/ pull out and yes thats exactly what he's doing he knows i want 1 and he doesn't right now so he does the pull out but i pray i get pregnant, our son is going on 3 and i want another 1 soon..and it's usually about 28-30 day cycle. so my chances are not that high your saying?

I nor anyone else can say that! You can ovulate at different times - from lack of sleep, stressl, diet, pills, hormones, age etc. What is bugging me here is that he doesn't want anothe child YET he doesn't wear protection - did he take biology?!!! ;-) XD See he thinks that you can't get pregnant while menstruating which is false! Sperm live upto 7 days, and IF you ovulated right when your period is due, then WHAM pregnancy! I don't like deceit honey! And I think IF you became pregnant, you could have a problem on your hands with him - saying stuff like "you tricked me etc" So you BOTH need to be on the same page! Just say to him "Since you don't want children there will be NO MORE unprotected sex, as I can get pregnant at anytime!" I think the is doing the unprotected thing because he just deosn't want to wear a condom! TOO BAD! You can't milk the cow, without buying it!

he knows i want to get pregnant i'm not lying to him and he knows u can get pregnant w/ the pull out cause it's happened before he's jut scared,i told him i was getting off the pills and i told him when i did it, so i don't see any deceit in what i'm doing he knows all the consequences and i have condoms right in the draw he knows they're there. He loves me and he knows i'm a good mom. thank u

So he's ok if you get pregnnat then right? If so, just take it a step further then! Since he is aware of all the correct things, I am confused about why he still has unprotected sex, yet pulls out?! Does this make sense to you? I think it's more of - lets see what happens - instead of MAKING it happen!?! Do you think it's like that? If so start taking prenatal vitamins - these dramatically increase your fertility! Do you think he is afraid of you being pregnant and the pain of labour etc? Some men panic about that - when seeing their loved one in pain! It is a hard call isn't it? Even though I've had several guy friends who REALLY wanted children! But mostly it is women whom have that yearning, and the guys it's the unknown! Really talk to him again about you wanting another baby, and that you REALLY want to try - as the pull out method takes a LONG time (except for teenagers! ;-) XD ) It's kind of like saying, 'lets stay engaged, and 1 day we WILL get married, don't know when, BUT lets not rush it!" It's pretty much like that isn't it?! XD XD

yes exactly but whenever i mention about a baby he says he gets turned off. and we are engaged and he isn't in a rush to get married it was just to shut me up! so ya were not makin' it happen but if it does then it does. so he's doesn't want to go the step further to make it happen and if i went and did prenatal vitamins he wouldn't be to happy.. i really don't know what his issue is honestly and why he says or does the things he does but i just say i'm fine w/ it if it happens. and he'll get through it