When im having sex, I have a full-on erection for around 20 minutes. Then all of a sudden it goes soft. Bigger than it usually is soft though...i dont know if that may mean something..
But when i masturbate, i can keep an erection for as long as i want.
PLEASE help me with this, its embarrassing.
But when i masturbate, i can keep an erection for as long as i want.
PLEASE help me with this, its embarrassing.
Does it suddenly go soft after ejaculation or before?
im having similar problems....
im with my gf now for about 2 months... and we rarely get to have sex because of our living situations....
so the other nite me and her went out for a few drinks and then back to a friends house....
we were on the couch and i was able to have an erection... no problems there... we were having a bit of foreplay... and then some intercourse... after about 20 minutes i got a pain in just under my head.... and after about another 5 minutes i slowly became soft... she was frustrated and so was i.. i thought it was the drink so i pleasured her a bit more so that she was satisfied and went for a quick sleep... after about another 5 mins i was fully erect again.. and later on we tried again.... same thing happened and we went back to sleep... the next morning we tried again and it happened one more time... i was seriously aggrovated... but then i started to pleasure her and became instantly hard i started to pleasure her and myself and the same time and eventually was able to come... it was seriously frustrating and i was putting it down to the alchohal... but now a couple days later and i can seem to find my libido i tried masterbating and because soft i tried after another 2-3 minutes and was able to hold a full on erection and come.. its worrying me now because i cant seem to find the drive any more and its really annoying me....
does anyone know any tips i really dont want to disapoint her agian when we get somewhere to ourselves and its completely make me selfconcious and slightly depressed i tryed talking to her about it and she blames herself and thinks that im not interested in her.. which is completely wrong
im with my gf now for about 2 months... and we rarely get to have sex because of our living situations....
so the other nite me and her went out for a few drinks and then back to a friends house....
we were on the couch and i was able to have an erection... no problems there... we were having a bit of foreplay... and then some intercourse... after about 20 minutes i got a pain in just under my head.... and after about another 5 minutes i slowly became soft... she was frustrated and so was i.. i thought it was the drink so i pleasured her a bit more so that she was satisfied and went for a quick sleep... after about another 5 mins i was fully erect again.. and later on we tried again.... same thing happened and we went back to sleep... the next morning we tried again and it happened one more time... i was seriously aggrovated... but then i started to pleasure her and became instantly hard i started to pleasure her and myself and the same time and eventually was able to come... it was seriously frustrating and i was putting it down to the alchohal... but now a couple days later and i can seem to find my libido i tried masterbating and because soft i tried after another 2-3 minutes and was able to hold a full on erection and come.. its worrying me now because i cant seem to find the drive any more and its really annoying me....
does anyone know any tips i really dont want to disapoint her agian when we get somewhere to ourselves and its completely make me selfconcious and slightly depressed i tryed talking to her about it and she blames herself and thinks that im not interested in her.. which is completely wrong