:-( so my girlfriends mother died a couple of days ago. i have been there for here supportive all they way thru this from when her mom was sick. her father is sick also. she told me that if he goes that she is next. i dont know why she feels this way. it upsets me like i try to comfort her but it seems like my words are not enough. i feel lost and dont know what to do can someone help me.
Unfortunately facing death is something we have to come to terms with alone. Yes, the comfort of others helps, but only the survivor can go through the greiving process. She'll get through this, and your support will add to her strength. Kindness and understanding and patience will go a long way to helping her through this difficult time.