my question is this after having no sex in 9 months because i just had a baby my man and i have sex but the crazy thing is that my man did not climax and told me i felt great its just been a long time since we had sex my friends are telling me that he has had sex with someone else thats why he didnt climax can someone please tell me him not climaxing is that normal anf 9 months of no sex????????????????
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No that is not normal after 9 months of "abstinence". Of course during that time he has masturbated but I am wondering why the two of you did not engage in healthy sexual acts together during this time? It is completely normal and healthy to have sex during pregnancy and while I was pregnant and my hormones were in overdrive so was my sex drive, I couldn't get enough sex. If you could not have sex, oral sex is good to pleasure your husband and keep him happy and by your side and not drive him away and into the arms of another lover (not saying that is what he did, in fact I hope he did not). I hope the two of you are close and have an open, honest relationship so that you can talk about this and get it sorted out before accusations start flying that don't have any truth behind them only speculation. Good luck and hope this helps
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It may be something that you have to trust him on if he says he didn't, maybe he didn't. All I can go by is that if me and my man abstain for even a week he blows his load like no tomorrow, so I couldn't imagine for 9 months and if he doesn't blow a lot, I know he has masturbated recently which I bluntly tell him - you masturbated. I am not going to say he did or didn't, that will be for the two of you to sort out or for you to decide - I just wanted to share my opinions with you. It does make you go, hmm.
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