Hey guys I've just got a few stories I'd like to share with you, and I hope some of you can give me some advice - I'd be very grateful! This will be long-winded and perhaps too detailed but I really can't help myself, so here goes...
I kind of always knew something was wrong down there but I put it to the back of my mind. This was a defense mechanism I suppose. I knew my masturbation habits were different from most other males, but different people like different things and with that in mind I allowed myself to run from the problem.
I've had intercourse with 3 different girls and obviously it never went well. The first time, I was completey oblivious to the possibility of a tight forskin. When I tried to enter the girl that night, I remember being too scared to put any conviction into it because I would feel pain/discomfort. This alerted me to the fact that something could be wrong. I was frustrated and embarassed but I soon got over it - although I refused to think much of it and it was put to the back of my mind once again.
Second time I tried intercourse was in the midst of a short relationship. We'd been going out for like a month and we planned to have sex one night after a few drinks. I was quite drunk but I remember enough of it to know this also didn't go well. It started off with her giving me a blowjob and my foreskin managed to retract but not before a great amount of discomfort. I managed to resist flinching and whatnot so that she wouldn't know. Once my foreskin had been retracted it stayed there for like 30-40 mins of intercourse and didn't return to cover my glans until I was flaccid again. Despite this being THE ONLY time my foreskin had been retracted in my life, I didn't feel any discomfort due to over-sensitivity. Could this be due to the alcohol? The girl finished me soon after, although I'm fairly sure it was for an entirely different reason.
The third time was similar to the second time, but I retracted my own foreskin (mild pain/discomfort but bearable) before intercourse and I actually couldn't get it back over the glans until the next morning - although I didn't put much effort to trying. Once again though, I was in no discomfort due to a sensitive glans, possibly due to alcohol again?
The Doctor suggested circumcision straight away when I finally decided to get up and do something about the problem - although thanks to websites like this one I knew better and insisted that I would only consider it as a last resort. Anyway for a couple of weeks I've tried stretching and applying a topical steroid cream. I'm making progress. I can now retract the foreskin when flaccid without any pain, but not when erect. I'm finding it a struggle to stay erect while I'm applying the stretching method. Can anyone help with this?
I've got another problem which you've probobly guessed by now - the over-sensitivy of the glans. I've found the only time it's even bearable to touch is when I wash it with shower gel. If I tried to touch it was just my dry hand it feels horrible. Anyone got any tips to solve this problem?
Sorry that this was so long-winded but this is the first time I've came out with this whole story. I've been quite depressed about it all. There's been numerous times when girls have directly offered me oral or intercourse and I've declinded because I know I'll have problems. However, the simple act of typing it all out has helped me greatly and I hope someone can offer advice.
Just some info you might be wondering: I'm 19 years old. The first girl came along when I was 17 and the other two were both in the same year when I was 18.
I kind of always knew something was wrong down there but I put it to the back of my mind. This was a defense mechanism I suppose. I knew my masturbation habits were different from most other males, but different people like different things and with that in mind I allowed myself to run from the problem.
I've had intercourse with 3 different girls and obviously it never went well. The first time, I was completey oblivious to the possibility of a tight forskin. When I tried to enter the girl that night, I remember being too scared to put any conviction into it because I would feel pain/discomfort. This alerted me to the fact that something could be wrong. I was frustrated and embarassed but I soon got over it - although I refused to think much of it and it was put to the back of my mind once again.
Second time I tried intercourse was in the midst of a short relationship. We'd been going out for like a month and we planned to have sex one night after a few drinks. I was quite drunk but I remember enough of it to know this also didn't go well. It started off with her giving me a blowjob and my foreskin managed to retract but not before a great amount of discomfort. I managed to resist flinching and whatnot so that she wouldn't know. Once my foreskin had been retracted it stayed there for like 30-40 mins of intercourse and didn't return to cover my glans until I was flaccid again. Despite this being THE ONLY time my foreskin had been retracted in my life, I didn't feel any discomfort due to over-sensitivity. Could this be due to the alcohol? The girl finished me soon after, although I'm fairly sure it was for an entirely different reason.
The third time was similar to the second time, but I retracted my own foreskin (mild pain/discomfort but bearable) before intercourse and I actually couldn't get it back over the glans until the next morning - although I didn't put much effort to trying. Once again though, I was in no discomfort due to a sensitive glans, possibly due to alcohol again?
The Doctor suggested circumcision straight away when I finally decided to get up and do something about the problem - although thanks to websites like this one I knew better and insisted that I would only consider it as a last resort. Anyway for a couple of weeks I've tried stretching and applying a topical steroid cream. I'm making progress. I can now retract the foreskin when flaccid without any pain, but not when erect. I'm finding it a struggle to stay erect while I'm applying the stretching method. Can anyone help with this?
I've got another problem which you've probobly guessed by now - the over-sensitivy of the glans. I've found the only time it's even bearable to touch is when I wash it with shower gel. If I tried to touch it was just my dry hand it feels horrible. Anyone got any tips to solve this problem?
Sorry that this was so long-winded but this is the first time I've came out with this whole story. I've been quite depressed about it all. There's been numerous times when girls have directly offered me oral or intercourse and I've declinded because I know I'll have problems. However, the simple act of typing it all out has helped me greatly and I hope someone can offer advice.
Just some info you might be wondering: I'm 19 years old. The first girl came along when I was 17 and the other two were both in the same year when I was 18.
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