I'm a 24 yr old male and I have kind of a unique issue. when i was about 14 I had my first sexual experience. It was just oral but I felt sexual pleasure from start to finish to the point where it was almost pain. It was too long ago to remember much else and it wasn't until I was 19 that I started having sex. I've been with my gf for 3 years and our sex life is great even though we have a kid. My problem is that since my first experience I no longer feel any sexual pleasure until the moment of ejaculation. The woman is always moaning and feeling incredible pleasure from start to finish. I think our record is 10 gushing orgasms and 2 externally stimulated orgasms. (more intense for her but doesn't make her gush) Honestly, I envy the pleasure she gets and often I feel like I wring myself to exhaustion for her and even though she works just as hard I'm the one who gets so little from it. the only thing I can think of that might have caused my issue is a minor concussion I had when I was younger from smashing my forehead on the inside of a windshield (have never failed to use a seatbelt since) but I doubt that would make such a dramatic effect. I fully intend to marry this woman and I'm afraid I will stop wanting to have sex entirely when sex is so important to her and any relationship. for the most part I have sex with her just because I love to be intimate with her and not really for the sex. I have tried for 5 years to strengthen myself to hold back ejaculation and the best I've gotten is maybe 3-4 seconds after I start to feel pleasure.
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