Need Suggestions on How to get to an orgasm.

dont think about it as much, and use your immagination, that will always help.

This may seem kinda crazy but how are you masterbating? IF your using you finger or a non-vibrating toy then you might want to up grade to something that vibrates. It will numb most of the extremarity of the orgasm while still giving you the same thing. Also, there are 2 types of orgasms..Clitoral and G-Spot. G-Spots are waaaay more intense. If your looking for something sensual and not S & M like then you might want to try using a vibrating toy on your clitoris. A great vibrating, clitoral only, toy is called the Magic Bullet and is made from Pure Romance. I paid $20.00 for mine and I would sell my husband just to keep that thing. LoL

Hope this helps! :$

Malazar says he is male, so the advice on how to produce a clitoral orgasm isn't really what he needs.



If the feelings are too intense, you might try an indirect form of stimulation, like instead of stroking the head, try from the side, or the shaft of the penis.



You may also find that it is necessary to get beyond that level of intensity, to go over the hump to an orgasm. Some people enjoy that personal intensity. Others find it too much. It may be individual taste.



Good luck.

Hey there.... i think th eperson above is right maybe try different angles.. the spot may be harder to reach and you arent getting there quite right.... i had the same problem and starting ~experimenting with a few toys.... they really helped our sex life has improved dramatically.. i find vibration help too.. have a look at this link htey have quite a range of products that may help..;-)
all the best!!