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Hi I am 15 and 1/2 YO male and I have been masturbating since I was about 10-11 YO. I just normally jack-off but am looking for new ways to do so. I have also recently been watching porn(first time). Also DK if this is important but I do it about once - two times a day to only 3-4 times a week. Also please tell me if I have to use lube or not. If any one can replay, thanks in advance.

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Hey. I will willingly put up front that I am a girl so even though I may not be an expert on guy masturbation, I can give a few pointers. When finding out what feels good to you don't just focus on your penis, even though it might be the most enticing area. Take some time to yourself to relax one day and just feel your body. You can lay in your bed or sit in a chair in front a mirror so you can watch and reckognise. It may seem a little strange, but just focus on the feeling of you touching yourself and explore. You can try rubbing, pinching, kneading, whatever feels good to you. And explore your whole body because you may be surprised to find how many places are sensative and can cause pleasure on your body. You can also use this method on your penis to find a new technique of masturbation. Also don't be ashamed of anything you do to yourself or of any surprising places that may cause pleasure. Just because your nipples are sensitive or you like touching your anus doesn't make you gay! Many men are sensitive in these areas, and in fact there is an organ called the prostate gland that you can feel inside the anus that causes pleasure, kind of like a female g-spot. Straight couples also use the prostate gland in sexual intercourse to to stimulate the man more, so don't feel like your sexuality is in question just because something feels good. Also doing this can prepare you for when your ready to have sex. You'll be able to inform your partner what feels nice and what doesn't so you can have an over all more enjoyable experience.  And remember with other suggestions you get, not everything will also work for you. Everyone's bodies are different so if something doesn't turn out to be your cup of tea, move on and try something else. Just have fun with it and enjoy.
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About the lube. You just do whatever you like best.

I tried lube several times but I never liked it. It was too messy and the feeling wasn't there.

You didn't say if you are circumcised and that may make a difference in your choice. I am not, so for the first 20 years I just rolled the foreskin up and down --- no lube needed. When I decided to desensitize my glans I did it by pulling my foreskin fully back and cleaning everything with rubbing alcohol to get rid of the stickiness. Then I touched and rubbed it while it was dry and eventually it no longer bothered me to touch the bare glans. I found that to be so erotic that since then I have always held my foreskin back tight and dry rubbed the whole shaft and head when I masturbate.

So it's really whatever YOU like, there are no rules.

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You can use a lube but it might be embarrassing walking into a drugstore and buying lube as they might card you. However, that doesnt mean there arn't plenty of lubes at your house. You can use lotion or baby oil or you can use your own spit. It has about the same viscosity as pre-cum and all can be easily washed off. When your in the shower you can use conditioner as well. Do not however use shampoo or soap as it has the same effect as idt does on your eyes but on your penis.

You can follow jenshire's advice regarding exploring your body. It may help find what you like more. Other than that, there arn't any other ways to masturbate. Its not like you want to do it using a cheese grater.
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