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About the lube. You just do whatever you like best.
I tried lube several times but I never liked it. It was too messy and the feeling wasn't there.
You didn't say if you are circumcised and that may make a difference in your choice. I am not, so for the first 20 years I just rolled the foreskin up and down --- no lube needed. When I decided to desensitize my glans I did it by pulling my foreskin fully back and cleaning everything with rubbing alcohol to get rid of the stickiness. Then I touched and rubbed it while it was dry and eventually it no longer bothered me to touch the bare glans. I found that to be so erotic that since then I have always held my foreskin back tight and dry rubbed the whole shaft and head when I masturbate.
So it's really whatever YOU like, there are no rules.
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You can follow jenshire's advice regarding exploring your body. It may help find what you like more. Other than that, there arn't any other ways to masturbate. Its not like you want to do it using a cheese grater.
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