hi
ive been seeing my bf since late November hes experienced, i had slept with anyone before him , we've pleasured each other hes went down on me and used his hand on my clit and ive used my hand on him during February we were staying at friends we were in bed he was on top of me gently kissing and rubbing his penis against my vagina when it slide in by accident it went in about a quarter, then once we got bk it happened again but he went in about three inches from fully in then he had to stop as it was to painful, then about three nights ago he went down on me then slide himself inside me he which was fine but then as he started to go try and go in further it hurt like hell so he pulled out afterwards i went to the loo and there was a small amount of blood, he has slide his fingers in before half the time he can easily put his finger in the other half my muscles tense up and stop him. any ideas on how to relax more as this is driving me nuts
ive been seeing my bf since late November hes experienced, i had slept with anyone before him , we've pleasured each other hes went down on me and used his hand on my clit and ive used my hand on him during February we were staying at friends we were in bed he was on top of me gently kissing and rubbing his penis against my vagina when it slide in by accident it went in about a quarter, then once we got bk it happened again but he went in about three inches from fully in then he had to stop as it was to painful, then about three nights ago he went down on me then slide himself inside me he which was fine but then as he started to go try and go in further it hurt like hell so he pulled out afterwards i went to the loo and there was a small amount of blood, he has slide his fingers in before half the time he can easily put his finger in the other half my muscles tense up and stop him. any ideas on how to relax more as this is driving me nuts
i ment i havent been with a man before him typo error sorry
you should be on top.. this will give you the control as far as penetration.. just relax and plenty of foreplay will make things easier..
Dr. D
Pediatric Urology
Dr. D
Pediatric Urology
You should try just a little at a time. And as it goes on, go in a little deeper and deeper until you get it the full way. And always wear a condom for lubrication, it will help.
Have you considered using lubrication? Sahnoaman is right about the position. You have more control if you are on top.