i lost my virginity at 16 and i still haven't been able to have an orgasm during sex unless i stimulate or he stimulates my clitoris. is there something wrong with me?
Loading...
No their is absolutely nothing wrong with you. Some women just dont... Their body stricktly needs to be played with from the outside.. I know it kind of sucks... but their is nothing wrong... you just need to find out how to orgasm w/o just intercourse... but something that might help would be for him to grind you/play w/ you and then when you feel like you are going to, have him enter you and do it kind of hard or maybe just have him enter you and grind... hope that makes since, it feels good for both of you and you might orgasm w/ him inside of you but because of the outside rubbing :-)
Loading...
Most woman cannot orgasm just from penetration. Most woman NEED that clitoral stimulation throughout sex to reach climax. Either have him touch you, or touch yourself throughout sex... or every now and then. You can also find positions that will allow him to rub against your clit as he slides in and out. You-on-top positions are especially good for that.
Loading...
there's an issue with me being on top during sex. I'm into the bondage lifestyle and i'm an extreme submissive so i don't really like being on top/in charge. and everytime i'm on top my partner doesn't seem to enjoy it that much, which in turn turns me off. any other suggestions for me?
Loading...
well even by you being on top does not mean that you have to be in control, i actually feel liek a lot of times my husband can go deeper inside of me when he is inside of me from the bottom moving his hips up and down, but if you dont want to be on top I understand that. I gues i dont understand the bondage lifestyle? but I still suggest that you have him grind you while inside of you while he is on top. Also maybe you could try some completely different sex positions... en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_sex_positions has some positions that are kind of different that might help work for both of you. Such as the 'lotus position' one, I am not sure if tat is to much 'on top of him' for you, cause you would both be sitting up, but i just suggest you look around on line at some sex positions cause their is a lot out their and a lot of them might not seem like something you would want to try but it might actually work for you so that you might both be able to cum in one short session... hope that helps.
Loading...