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I no exactyl how you feel i have the exact same problem try having him or you can rub your clit during sex (you will probably find it more pleasurable if he does it adding a little spit to the ckit as a lubricant might help as well
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Have you tried g-spot stimulation? If you don't know where it is, it's on the roof of the vagina just a few inches in; if you insert your fingers then curl them upwards and drag them (gently at first!) out, you'll find it. Very very very few women find penetration itself pleasurable on its own, you nearly always also need either clitoral or g-spot stimulation. With some creative positions you can get your partner to grind against it when he thrusts; missionary with your legs over his shoulders is probably the most common one, or you riding him while leaning backwards slightly.
Clitoral is easy too and you have a few options. Experimenting with your boyfriend is easy enough, though as above said make sure you use lubricant. A small egg vibrator is also an option, there are also u-shaped toys you can get that are designed to be inserted above a partner's penis which vibrate against both your g-spot and clitoris at the same time. Those ones can be pricey but they're pretty fantastic.
tl;dr: There are a lot of options, the short answer is that penetration isn't really meant to feel good on its own and what you're experiencing is nothing unusual. You and your partner just need to get more creative!
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