ok so heres my problem: i live in a motel with my mom 12 year old sister and dog. the room is small one bed and not soundproof at all bathroom. with a standup shower. heres what i want and need to know:
i want to know some good ways to reach a climax.
is their a way to make it quieter if so how?
can you do the faucet thing in a cheapy standup shower,if so how?
i also want to be able to have really explosive orgasms when im alnoe our while masturbating in front of my boyfriend, how do i do those.
is this description an orgasm because if it is i can orgasm whenever i want to without stimulation: sometimes i just cant help but to contract the muscles in my legs and abdominal area and ill just like crouch or kneel on my left knee and hold myself up with the other leg bent. and eventually my skins does gett redder especially my face and i start breathing deeply, and my heart rate speeds up. i think this is orgasming but im not exactly sure and would like to hear your opinions. thank you.
ialso want to watch porn with my boyfriend but i dont know how to ask him. hes told me he watches it i want to with him.
any other questions i have ill ask in comments later. answer anything you can. please and thank you.
Well do you touch yourself? If not.. thats a good start.. when your in the shower.. just start touching all over.. and then find your clitoris and rub that.. .thats the best spot.. breath evenly and just avoid making noises.. .its not that hard not too. or play some music while your doing it so no one can hear you. If it feels good when your doing the whole contracting the muscles and whatever leg thing your doing it could very well be an orgasm.. if it feels good.. don't stop then. and communication is key when you have a boyfriend.. if you can't ask a simple question then you guys need to work on that. Straight up tell him that you think its hot that he watches porn and how would he feel if you watched with him.. or would he like to try it? Be honest.. thats the best tip I can give you about that.. MOST guys have no problem with that and would think its hot that their gf wants to watch with them.. As far as explosive orgasms.. your the only one to know you body.. touch yourself and explore and figure out what kinda touches you like and when you find something that feels really good ( touching the clitoris is your best bet!) don't stop till you can't fight it anymore... and then keep going.. eventually it will seem like too much like you wanna explode... keep going with it and it will come eventually.
Thanks religion and yeah I already do touch myself and me and my boyfriend have a very trusting communicative relationship. We actually talk about anything and everything. I feel I truly do love him and he feels the same. I just wanted to know if there was anything I could do to make it a little less awkward.*** I also came up with a question I w as going to put in the original topic post but couldn't remember when I was about to type it: I want to know how to make my self ejaculate and any tips for my boyfriend to take advantage of because he also wants to know. Also what are some of the best techniques for giving my boyfriend oral sex. Because whenever I do I can never get him to come and my mouth and hands tire very quickly, he says he doesn't mind that I can't get him to finish but I think it would be nice to be able to do it more for him. I've actually only made him come once. Also and sorry for so many questions but does anybody know good dry humping positions that have the girl being dominated, because I'm waiting to get on birth control and this is what feels the best for both of us as we wait.
It is very very hard to get a guy off just by oral sex... I have only gotten my husband off once and that was like after an hour.. I was very tired as well.. my mouth was sore as hell. Do you use different touches and pressures and stuff or do you just suck one way and thats it? Try playing with his balls while your sucking.. or tease him little bit.. start off by kissing and touching everywhere but the tip of his penis.. get him all excited and then slowly start licking the tip then kinda kiss it then slowly start to suck just the tip.. play with it a little bit like that going a little deeper every could sucks and then when he is loving that when he least expects it deep throat it.. thats usually a good pattern and as he gets more and more excited see how long you can get deep throated ( they love that) if you get tired of deep throating use your hands under your mouth twisting your hands while you go up and down works too. If you get tired ask him to jack off himself in your face.. they love that too. The more you switch it up you get him more excited but you gotta jack him off fast and for a while to get him to cum so like I said your better off having him finish himself in your face or on your boobs .. or while you play with yourself.. Hope that helps!
thanks again reli . i also want to know from anyone elses experiences and does anyone know anygood dry humping positions with girl on bottom and because i like being dominated are there any sexual positions that particularly pertain to that or intensify that feeling. i just wanna know. and any good ways to get a girl to ejaculate wether by self induced or by my boyfriends doing. any information on this would be very hepful.