Ok. thanks for looking. but i think i have a problem. I am 14 and have a freaking crazy sex drive. It is beyond explaining. i have to masturbate every so often or i will start to act funny and do stupid things. It has been like this snice i was like 11.. And now i have broken a toilet. I was masterbating and my back hit the toilet cistern and broke it. I cant control this crazy thing. I dont think it is puberty because none of my brothers have this problem. I am embrassed to tell my dad so i came here. But is there something wrong? What should i do?
There's nothing wrong with you. Just because your brothers claim to not masturbate that often doesn't mean that they don't masturbate just as often. Most people lie about masturbation because they feel they should be embarrassed. What you are doing is perfectly normal. Breaking the toilet, well, just be more careful next time! Does this help?
Well i need to know how to control it though. i dont want this to be a normal part of my life
Feeling the need to masterbate because you feel that you will act funny or do stupid things could eventually lead to problems down the road.
Tho masterbation is very healthy and natural, you make it sound like it's starting to control you.
If you masterbate "every so often" as you put it, that's fine, but if you feel the need to say, rob a bank if you don't "get off", you could be heading into some problems.
Masterbation feels good and it is a wonderful stress releiver, but you shouldn't do it to stop you from making a bad decision.
Tho masterbation is very healthy and natural, you make it sound like it's starting to control you.
If you masterbate "every so often" as you put it, that's fine, but if you feel the need to say, rob a bank if you don't "get off", you could be heading into some problems.
Masterbation feels good and it is a wonderful stress releiver, but you shouldn't do it to stop you from making a bad decision.
You have to be bigger that "it" and you have to learn self control. You say you do it "every so often", that's okay. I don't know that you have to stop, but you have to get a different mindset.
What stupid thing would you do?
What do you mean by "acting funny"?
What stupid thing would you do?
What do you mean by "acting funny"?
there is nothing wrong with it i masturbate 2-3 times a day and im not embarrassed about it because its only natural
It is perfectly normal to have a freaking crazy sex drive at 14. It's totally new and your body/mind have to adjust to these new sensations/feelings/desires. I don't know what you mean by 'every so often', but it is perfectly normal to masturbate every day, especially at your age. At 14 your puberty is at full speed ahead and you are going through all the body developments.
Many boys do it when they wake up and when they get home from school and possibly again before going to sleep.
Do not worry about it. I assure you your brothers probably masturbate every day as well.
Many boys do it when they wake up and when they get home from school and possibly again before going to sleep.
Do not worry about it. I assure you your brothers probably masturbate every day as well.