Me and my boyfriend just had sex recently and i lost my virginity ... It was so painful ... He really forced it in roughly. And the side effects are really kicking in .. My vagina is in so much pain when i pee it stings and im very sore ... Of course we used protection .. I feel very weak and tired and i feel like throwing up .. I feel really exhausted .. Am i supposed to feel this way ?
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this happened with me the first time too, plus I bled some. Try a warm bath in the tub.
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Hi, I'm sorry its still hurting. Before yoy have sex with him talk to him about how yoy feel. Let him know he needs to take things slowly and gently, and he needs to listen to how you are feeling. He also needs to take time to arouse you with plenty of foreplay. If you are aroused your body will produce natural lubricant and intercourse will be easier. Also, condoms can dry things up a bit so you might want to use extra lube. Sex us all about communication. If you can't have that conversation with him then you shouldn't be having sex with him. And if he won't listen to your needs then you shouldn't either. Sex is supposed to be pleasurable for both partners. I hope things settle down and you feel better soon. All the best.
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