I am 19, female and I have recently been seeing a guy 30 years of age. We have had sex three times. Things moved kinda fast so we didn't really discuss whether we have been tested or anything which yeah we should have. Today he asked me if I have been tested or have any type of STI/STD. I have not been tested but I have had about 4 sexual partners total all with protection. I have never had any symptoms or signs of any STI/STD which I know some may not show symptoms. The reason he asked is because he found a red spot on him. I didn't ask where or if it were multiple spots but he just said "noticed a red spot on me, maybe it's just a pimpled but it freaked me out". So now I AM worried and freaking out because I have NOT been tested but never had really any reason to be concerned. I quickly made a doctors appointment for tomorrow to get tested but I am just really nervous and freaking out. If it were just a single spot could it be something else? A pimple or ingrown hair? I just have no idea because I don't know what it looks like, where or how serious it is. I quickly told him I have been tested because him asking just freaked me out.. but what if I do have something? I don't like lying but I just got nervous.
Any comments or insight would be very appreciated please!