hey, im a 17 year old male, yes im a vrigin, so is my girlfriend whos also 17. today we went to have sex but i couldnt get my penis into her vagina and we both felt stupid...so can anyone help me? whats the best way to do it first time etc...?
Find a warm place to do it, both of you totally naked. Sit on a comfortable chair and masturbate until you come to a full erection. Then have her come over toward you and have her "sit" on your erect penis. She can do this either facing you or away from you. Let her use her hand to guide your penis into her vagina. This will ensure that you won't mistake her anus for her vagina. You may also use some water-based lubricant to facilitate penetration for the first time.
First, you want to make sure that you're both in the same space, head-wise.
Are you both sure that this is what you want to do?
Second, are you using protection?
Unless you've practiced putting a condom on, or masturbating with one on, the dulling of sensation just might make it less intense than you are expecting.
Third, do you have a safe, comfortable location so that you two will not be rushed or hurried? No interuptions, no problems with parents or roommates?
You might try waterbased lube, but you will want to make sure that she's as aroused as possible, and start before you have been erect for too long. Too long a time sitting at erection, while she get's all the attention could make you loose an erection, which is what I get from your note is the problem here.
Right?
Let us know how this works out for you.
But be sure to use protection!
Are you both sure that this is what you want to do?
Second, are you using protection?
Unless you've practiced putting a condom on, or masturbating with one on, the dulling of sensation just might make it less intense than you are expecting.
Third, do you have a safe, comfortable location so that you two will not be rushed or hurried? No interuptions, no problems with parents or roommates?
You might try waterbased lube, but you will want to make sure that she's as aroused as possible, and start before you have been erect for too long. Too long a time sitting at erection, while she get's all the attention could make you loose an erection, which is what I get from your note is the problem here.
Right?
Let us know how this works out for you.
But be sure to use protection!