Please, could anyone help with my problem? I'm pretty desperate and don’t know what to do.
I'm 21 and have never been sexually active. I have watched some erotic videotapes and I'm pretty sure I would enjoy in sex because I think there is nothing more beautiful.
I like guys, but I'm terrified to have sex. Three of my relationships failed because of this problem. I really loved my last boyfriend and everything was going just fine but when it came to the point when we should jump into bed together, I panic and ruined everything.
Is this abnormal and how can I get over it?
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I understand you completely because I'm a woman and had similar problems when I was younger. So, I would really like to help you.
First I can assume is that this fear could be founded on some unpleasant experience or trauma in a past. You didn’t mention anything like this so we can reject this option.
I believe you have one very common fear of intimacy and that it will go away as you gain intimacy and stability in your relationship.
I'm very sorry that all your previous relationships failed because of this, but I don’t think that that is all your fault.
Only, if a guy cares about you enough to make sure that you feel ready to have sex for the first time, he is the right one you want to be involved with.
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This is NOT the solution. You had the same problem when you were younger, but she is NOT "younger" anymore. She is 21, and it's past time to p***y foot around with this and wait another 21 years until she feels ready. By then, she will be a sour, dried up old prune who won't be able to get a man. Good grief.
This woman needs to explain to her boyfriend that she's overdue and doesn't know how to start or what to do. If he's any kind of a real man, he will take over and lead her in the right direction. If not, she needs to get out on the street and flag down the first guy that comes riding by on a Harley. HE will know what to do!
This woman needs to explain to her boyfriend that she's overdue and doesn't know how to start or what to do. If he's any kind of a real man, he will take over and lead her in the right direction. If not, she needs to get out on the street and flag down the first guy that comes riding by on a Harley. HE will know what to do!
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