I'm 20 years old and I made the biggest mistake of my life.
My fiance' and I have been together for 4 years, and have never used protection, nor the "Pullout method". We went through problems and ended up splitting for a few days. Within those days I was depressed (Absolutely NO excuse for my actions) and ended up falling in the arms of another man. We had unprotected sex. However, Before he could ejaculate I stopped him. Literally, only penetration accured. Maybe three days before this my fiance and I had intercourse.
Now I find myself having two positive home pregnancy tests. :'( I admit I was irresponsible, My fiance still doesnt know about my actions, nor do I want him to because I know it will crush him. I feel awful about it. The worse part is, I have always had an irregular period and have never done a very good job of keeping track, so I have an idea of when my last period was. But I'm not sure.
The biggest reason I am downright terrified is because in 4 years of having unprotected sex my fiance and I have never had a pregnancy scare. I am with another person one time and I end up pregnant. I am not certain if pre-ejaculation occured with my second partner or not, I know the chancs of conception are slim with that, but still possible. I dont know him very well, therefor I dont know that much about whether he had another partner within those days, or masterbated.I do however know, My fiace does not "Pullout". I guess what I am looking for is reassurance that my fiance is the father, and not some one night stand.