My boyfriend and I made love for the first time last January 4th and made love the second time last January 10th, both protected. We had oral sex on both dates too and he cummed when I gave him a ha***ob. I don't remember really well if my fingers made contact with my vag that time, I'm not actually the type who touches myself when I'm with my boyfriend. I don't really remember too if I have washed my hands. But does sperm die fast once it hits the air? Now here's the thing. I had my period on the 19th of January, 9 days after our last intercourse. I got into the conclusion that I have not conceived because my period already came. Is that already a sign that didn't get pregnant? I've been waiting for my next period and it's the 33th day now and I'm still waiting. I'm irregular though, but I've been feeling really paranoid. 'Cause lately I've been feeling cramps, I've only been feeling like wanting to vomit but I don't (I usually feel this way but I thought this will also be a symptom right now), my breasts are sore, I've had headaches, I've been feeling dizzy sometimes, I'm also a little "hot" right now, hotter than normal. I don't have food cravings though. I know very well that these could be PMS symptoms too, but I'm still afraid cause I know these might be pregnancy signs. I don't know if I'm just stressing myself out that's why I'm feeling this way. Someone please help. :(
Sperm can live in the open air until the semen dries out. The time can vary depending on the surface the sperm is on. It is possible to conceive by getting sperm on your hand and then touching yourself in any way.
As for your symptoms they are also a sign of stress. When your getting more stressed out about being pregnant the more symptoms your body will develop. It has also been proven if you think your pregnant your brain can make you develop the symptoms to it and the moment you start your period all the symptoms go away.
Was your period regular when you had it in jan? I would stop stessing about pregnancy and if you havent started your period by the first of next month take a pregnancy test. If it is negative and still no period I would make an appointment with your family doctor or gynecologist.
I'll try to make myself stop worrying so much. Thanks! :)
What do you mean by regular? It was my normal period, heavy bleeding as usual.
What I was meaning by was your period regular in Jan was: Normal color, length, heaviness, etc.
Sometimes when an egg will implant it will cause your body to bleed and some women think this is there period when its not. The changes usually consist of a different color than normal period blood, will only last a couple days, very light and spotty etc. If your not ready for a baby I would consider going on some kind of birth control method for yourself and have him wear condoms. They have tons of different kinds of birth control from a daily pill, a monthly ring you insert, a patch you put on, a shot you can get every three months, to the mirena they insert for 5 years and can be removed anytime.
It was normal and I'm pretty sure it wasn't the implantation bleeding. So, it's most likely that I'm not pregnant right? Cause I've already gotten my period 9 days after the intercourse...
I can not say for sure but I would say your not pregnant. I think its more your worrying about being pregnant and your brain is causing your body to feel like you are and giving you the symptoms on top of the stress your causing yourself which gives you symptoms.
Maybe. It's just that I'm too scared. Thanks a lot! That's a relief :)