i have had the same this for the last two weeks. :-( me an my boyfriend have be together almost 9 months but have not had sex he had fingered me i have never had sex and im hoping that there is nothing wrong i dont want him to touch me or anything i cant tell cuz i feel like its eww. i dont know what is my period is not due for a couple more days i keep hoping that it comes but im not haven my cramps and the things that i do b4 i get it.. i know its not what it could be that would be. i feel better that im not the only one that has had this problem so im not alone everything on the web says you could be expecting!! HELL NOOO lol but i just need HELP!!! asap 8-|
Everyone! No need to worry. Same thing is happening to me. It's just when he fingers you, his nails cut you.
I'm on birth control, no stds, no pregnancy, and I am NOT a virgin.
Trust me babes, you have nothing to worry about. Just tell him to cut his nails and make sure they aren't sharp and to ALWAYS WASH THEIR HANDS FIRST! You don't need unnecessary gross bacteria to get in a verrrry uncomfortable place.
The cut makes it burn when you pee.
BUT if something occurs that it burns when you pee and you have to pee CONSTANTLY, then go to a doctor because you have a UTI.
So to avoid that - because trust me, it sucks - ALWAYS go to the bathroom to pee after sex, ASAP. I waited half an hour once and got a UTI. They're not fun, especially if you go to school and have to pee every five minutes - no exaggeration.
I'm on birth control, no stds, no pregnancy, and I am NOT a virgin.
Trust me babes, you have nothing to worry about. Just tell him to cut his nails and make sure they aren't sharp and to ALWAYS WASH THEIR HANDS FIRST! You don't need unnecessary gross bacteria to get in a verrrry uncomfortable place.
The cut makes it burn when you pee.
BUT if something occurs that it burns when you pee and you have to pee CONSTANTLY, then go to a doctor because you have a UTI.
So to avoid that - because trust me, it sucks - ALWAYS go to the bathroom to pee after sex, ASAP. I waited half an hour once and got a UTI. They're not fun, especially if you go to school and have to pee every five minutes - no exaggeration.
I do have a some what similar story, but then again i don't.
So my boyfriend and I have been together for over a year and a half and we have had sex, and i am on birth control. So im on my last week, where i am supposed to get my period, but i haven't gotten it yet, but ihave this brownish sticky discharge, and it's scaring me because i don't have my period yet. Although, i did take a pregnancy test, and it says negative, but im still freaking out. I'm going to take another test either tomorrow or thursday, just to make sure the first one was right. Please tell me that this is something that has happened to some one too!
So my boyfriend and I have been together for over a year and a half and we have had sex, and i am on birth control. So im on my last week, where i am supposed to get my period, but i haven't gotten it yet, but ihave this brownish sticky discharge, and it's scaring me because i don't have my period yet. Although, i did take a pregnancy test, and it says negative, but im still freaking out. I'm going to take another test either tomorrow or thursday, just to make sure the first one was right. Please tell me that this is something that has happened to some one too!
My boyfriend and i have been dating for about 9 months,
the same thing happened, the first couple things i saw on the internet were talking about how it might be cervical cancer (which is weird because i got the shots), im a virgin, and not on my period. I started to become very worried, but now at least I know he just scratches me, and im not worried any more, thank you so much!
the same thing happened, the first couple things i saw on the internet were talking about how it might be cervical cancer (which is weird because i got the shots), im a virgin, and not on my period. I started to become very worried, but now at least I know he just scratches me, and im not worried any more, thank you so much!
okay i had sex with my boyfriend on May 22 and am not supposed too start my period until Jun5 and started on May30 and it was brown and i thought that maybe it was implantation bleeding. because it was lighter than my usual but then it started too turn dark red and i am confused its medium and still brown and red just dark pink and red(sorry if TMI!!!) i just need help!!! ....could i be prego??? help me please has anyone else had this and been pregnant!? im hoping i am!!!!
Same with me, ive searched it up everywhere and its not sayin anythin, am i goin to continue bein like this for ever or will it go away he did it 2 days ago and its still comin out pretty heavey, what shud i do, im clean and everythin, im just worried his fingers wernt.
I HAVE the SOLUTION!!!
I have advice for all of you. I expereniced my first time being fingered (or any sexual act)
with my boyfrined. I am too a virgin. There was also slight bleeding and later i noticed a brown discharge but it quickly went away later.
THE ANSWER: Bleeding is occuring because there was a tear inside your vagina most likely a breech in your hymen. Also for those of you experinecing pain...your boyfriend was a little too rough and scratched or damaged your walls. (If all he did was finger you then dont worry you're still a virgin) You're also sore because your vagina recieved a workout if you will and your body is adjusting.
Now for the brown discharge: Its really your vaginas way of self-clensing the foreign particles that are or were inside your body. However it could also be a sign of a problem within the vagina. You should see an OBGYN to be safe. HAVE YOUR BOYFRIEND WASH HIS HANDS BEFORE ANY INTIMATE CONTACT WITH YOUR VAGINA. germs can get under the fingernail or in the skin and you could be in jeopardy of an infection.
What you should see is a white to clear sticky substance. Thats your bodys homemade lube. Nothing to worry about.
ALL OF YOU SHOULD SEE AN OBGYN! If you're going to be active please respect yourself and get checked up. Just tell your mom you would like to see one because your cycle is heavy or something. They cant come in the room with you while you're talking to your doctor and also the doctor cant disclose information to your parent unless its life threatening. That way whats your business stays your business and you're safe to have fun another day. Also be careful and get tested. You may be safe but you dont know if your boyfriend is so please google finger covers(You can get them at discreet romance/ they can be secretly mailed to your home and hidden by the people so that no one knows about it. Also its discreet so it wont show up what it is on debit card bills or the box)
LOVe you all and be safe!!!!
Source: OBGYN
I have advice for all of you. I expereniced my first time being fingered (or any sexual act)
with my boyfrined. I am too a virgin. There was also slight bleeding and later i noticed a brown discharge but it quickly went away later.
THE ANSWER: Bleeding is occuring because there was a tear inside your vagina most likely a breech in your hymen. Also for those of you experinecing pain...your boyfriend was a little too rough and scratched or damaged your walls. (If all he did was finger you then dont worry you're still a virgin) You're also sore because your vagina recieved a workout if you will and your body is adjusting.
Now for the brown discharge: Its really your vaginas way of self-clensing the foreign particles that are or were inside your body. However it could also be a sign of a problem within the vagina. You should see an OBGYN to be safe. HAVE YOUR BOYFRIEND WASH HIS HANDS BEFORE ANY INTIMATE CONTACT WITH YOUR VAGINA. germs can get under the fingernail or in the skin and you could be in jeopardy of an infection.
What you should see is a white to clear sticky substance. Thats your bodys homemade lube. Nothing to worry about.
ALL OF YOU SHOULD SEE AN OBGYN! If you're going to be active please respect yourself and get checked up. Just tell your mom you would like to see one because your cycle is heavy or something. They cant come in the room with you while you're talking to your doctor and also the doctor cant disclose information to your parent unless its life threatening. That way whats your business stays your business and you're safe to have fun another day. Also be careful and get tested. You may be safe but you dont know if your boyfriend is so please google finger covers(You can get them at discreet romance/ they can be secretly mailed to your home and hidden by the people so that no one knows about it. Also its discreet so it wont show up what it is on debit card bills or the box)
LOVe you all and be safe!!!!
Source: OBGYN
i have this too, my boyfriend only fingered me, but he was hurting me. i have the brown/red discharge and itchiness. im scared i have something. theres no way i can be pregnant. im still a virgin, but im scared that i have an infection, cos it hurts when i pee and i have itchiness and burning :L
My boyfriend and I kind of fooled around today and I had some bloody discharge. It really worries me. I've tried researching what it could be but I'm not able to find anything. I don't want it to be anything serious. My boyfriend really didn't finger me this time. He felt more from the outside. Could he have caused serious trauma? As far as I know though, it was just a small bit of blood. I haven't bled since.
Tomorrow is me and my boyfriends 10 months anni. And well, hes been fingering me since our 6/7th month. Nothings ever happened, and today he fingered me. About 3 hours later I wiped myself and found a brownish discharge..I got scared so I wiped again but deeper in and there were little spots of pinkish blood..Im not due for my period, infact I lost it 2 weeks ago, Im a virgin and Im 15. HELP PLEASE.:|
This just made me so relieved that i'm not the only one :)
I have the same problem! I'm glad I'm not alone, I thought this was only happening to me.
One day me and my boyfriend were fooling around and he began to finger me. It felt kinda of painful but that was because I have never done anything like that, but it did feel really good after a while. Everything was good, no blood no nothing. Probably like a day or two later he did it again but this time when we were done he took his finger out and it caught my eye that on his finger there was brownish/redish stuff on his finger. I was really embarrassed and didn't know what it was. Right after that I got my period, so I just thought that the stuff on his fingers were blood from my period. Now everytime I pleasure myself this substance appears on my underwear and there's no smell or anything but it's nasty. I wanna be able to do stuff with my boyfriend without this happening. I don't know what to do -.-
If you figured out the problem and know a solution to this please, please, please help me out here.
Thanks <3
thats just SICK AF
honestlu im not a vitgin not on birthcontroll go talk to your mom then ur doc and wait to have sex!
You are a virgin and took a pregnancy test?