Me and my boyfriend fooled around a bit, a couple weeks ago. We are both only 15. I know, I know not a smart idea, but we have never had sex and we don't plan to for a long long time. Well anyway, we have fooled around a couple times. He's fingered me, but that's it. I am just worried that he may have had some pre-cum on his fingers, I don't think his fingers were wet, and I don't know if he had pre-cummed yet anyway. But if he did, and he fingered me with those fingers I just want to know what the chances are of pregnancy. (This happened about 1-2 weeks ago) And I am also worried about, last Friday which was February 25th. I had my period like normal, maybe a little early on February 5th, to maybe about the 12th. So I should be getting one sooner or later, I am irregular so it may be a little while because today is only the 28th of February. We were both naked, I wasn't touching his penis or anything, and he moved it so it wouldn't happen to touch me by accident, and then he fingered me with the same hand. I don't think he had pre-cummed at this point, but what if he did? What are my chances? Also, his penis barely touched the right side of my vagina, not really close to the opening. And I think he was dry, but could I become pregnant from that? I have been reading posts everywhere, and I don't know if I am just phsyching myself out or anything. I have gained 12 pounds, and I feel very bloated and its just been worrying me that I could be pregnant, and the thought scares me. I don't know if its all in my head or not and that I might be having a fake pregnancy where I make myself think that I am when I am infact not. I can't take birth control, and I can't tell my mom anything. I have not been to a gynecologist and I don't know when I will ever go. I can't go to a clinic of any kind, and I can't get a pregnancy test. I would love if someone could calm my worries, because I don't know what to do, or if all of it is in my head? Sorry for the somewhat drawnout post, I just need help and some answers. Please, please someone help me.
Also the very first time that the thought of him possible having pre-cum on his fingers was when I was ovulating, it was the second to last day of ovulation if I am correct, had abdominal pains for a few days after that and then they went away, but I still occasionally have abdominal pains, I don't know if this will affect anything or not.
First off, you have to calm down. The chances that you're pregnant are very small, as there has to be actual penetration for a pregnancy to occur, as sperm do not survive long outside the body. And even when the sperm are inside the vagina, your body starts working on killing them almost right away. Try to buy a pregnancy test and take it, and since you're only 15 it would be best if you and your boyfriend left your clothes on while fooling around. Good luck!
Well no judgement but if you are planning on waiting a long time to have sex you may want to slow down because in the heat of the moment anything can happen. As far as your chances of being pregnant i would say slim to none. pre cum does not have sperm in it so even if there was precum you dont have to worry. when you are stressed and worried like you are your body will undergo changes you are not used to. stress can make your period late and even irregular. same with the bloating. my best advice is to try to relaxx and take it easy. slow things down with your boyfriend if he loves you he will understand that messing around is not worth you being stressed out and worried. best of luck to you.
Thanks, but I'm not able to get a pregnancy test...
Well I got my period. But thanks for giving me some answers to ease my mind somewhat.
I know how u fill I think I may b prego now I'm 14 me and my bf did it 4 times today and he came in me
Calm down, he has to be inside you and cum so it hits the opening of your cervix for the sperm to swim in! I dont think your pregnant so stop freaking out hun!!