ok so yesterday i had sex for the second time and i didn't feel any pleasure at all only a little pain so im wondering when will it start to feel pleasureful or should it have already?
I'm guessing you a girl right? Pleasure comes from knowing what feels good, the pain goes away.
Remember don't have unprotected sex. STD's and pregnancy are big side effects of sex.
Remember don't have unprotected sex. STD's and pregnancy are big side effects of sex.
hey dont feel bad i just posted the same quetion it stii hurts the second time but no pleasure ya why is that is that abnormal??
I had sex for the first time 3 days ago, and got no pleasure out of it,only pain. I asked my best friend about it and she said she didn't get any pleasure out of it untill the 3rd time, which was also when it stopped hurting and bleeding, so i've stopped worrying.
I don't think theres anything to worry about.
I don't think theres anything to worry about.
ok...when does the bleeding stop? I mean how many times does it usually last till I can stop worrying about bleeding after sex?
I had sex actually, just a couple hours ago. for the second time. and i bled as well. i'm not sure if its normal. but as for the pain. thats normal. i asked my friend about it and she said the pain goes away after the 3rd or 4th time. so dont worry :]
also, just relax. it helps ease the pain as well. :-D
also, just relax. it helps ease the pain as well. :-D
i had sex for the first time yesterday, drunk out of my face im only 15 and regret but want to try it again, dont no why cause it hurt that much but when he popped my cherry i bled a bit, but will i bleed again second time?
Regarding the pleasure that people asked about, but also the original topic...
For women, it often takes a while to feel really good.
Many times, women don't even begin to orgasm until they've had a bit more experience.
On my first time, I did feel pleasure, as well as my second. Not an orgasm, but it felt good.
That may be because I like g-spot stimulation.
You might not. The g-spot is not a one way ticket to orgasming. Try having him lay down on you to hit your clit.
But every single womans body is different.
If you, and your boyfriend, don't know what you like to have done to you sexually (this comes with experience, and often times masturbation if you're comfortable with that) that will also affect it.
Another key to to relax! If you're not relaxed, your muscles will tense and make it hard for penetration. That could be something that's going wrong.
Try pushing with your vaginal muscles. Pretend like you're going to pee. This will open you up.
Also, be very aroused.
The bleeding was caused by your hymen tearing, as you know, which SHOULD hurt.
If it doesn't hurt, it's been torn already.
Some women bleed for a few minutes, some for a few hours, and rarely, for a few days.
You might bleed if it wasn't torn completely, but it's safe to say that you probably won't.
If you do, it's fine. You won't bleed every single time you have sex, but you might for the first few.
Hope this helped someone!
For women, it often takes a while to feel really good.
Many times, women don't even begin to orgasm until they've had a bit more experience.
On my first time, I did feel pleasure, as well as my second. Not an orgasm, but it felt good.
That may be because I like g-spot stimulation.
You might not. The g-spot is not a one way ticket to orgasming. Try having him lay down on you to hit your clit.
But every single womans body is different.
If you, and your boyfriend, don't know what you like to have done to you sexually (this comes with experience, and often times masturbation if you're comfortable with that) that will also affect it.
Another key to to relax! If you're not relaxed, your muscles will tense and make it hard for penetration. That could be something that's going wrong.
Try pushing with your vaginal muscles. Pretend like you're going to pee. This will open you up.
Also, be very aroused.
The bleeding was caused by your hymen tearing, as you know, which SHOULD hurt.
If it doesn't hurt, it's been torn already.
Some women bleed for a few minutes, some for a few hours, and rarely, for a few days.
You might bleed if it wasn't torn completely, but it's safe to say that you probably won't.
If you do, it's fine. You won't bleed every single time you have sex, but you might for the first few.
Hope this helped someone!
I had sex for the first time almost a week ago. i got no pleasure from it but it didn't hurt. it kinda made me nervouse because i heard that the first time usually hurts and that there is bleeding. but my boyfriend and i are planning on doing it again very soon and i would like some ideas on how i can pleasure him and myself at the same time (not to mention, he wants me on top). please, can any one be of any help and let me know what i can do to make it feel better and still have fun? and can someone please explain why it didn't hurt or bleGLOBALed?
Well Girls...lol I'm no expert.....but me and my angel had sex for her first time.....and....as expected it should hert and the bleeding comes from the breaking of the hymen and how much will be different in other girls may be a day Mabey 2 or more...and as for pleasure......it depends on the female. She loved it. but others may have different "gspots" which is usually about 6 in. I believe. Try a different position....if he was in top...change places. That way you can controle where "it" goes.
Try going slower next time with at least 10 minutes of foreplay. Also you might want to try lube. It will help with the hymen stretching instead of tearing, which will prevent bleeding and pain. Good Luck, and be safe!
What about the numbing why does the numbing happen when u do it the first time does that go away and if you streched it out while doing it and u can feel it in u the second day but it its not is that supossed to be good or did i ruin the clit?
I have had sex before, and let me tell you - It may hurt the second time, but it's best to keep practicing. It stretches your vagina a little bit more, and you'll get used to it.
I'll have sex for the second time tomorrow. I had no pain during the first, the best way to avoid pain is by having him eat you out and finger you therefore stretching out and arousing you enough that you'll create vagina lubrication. I didn't feel any pain at all and I was incredibly turned on.
What lube and where I can get it