i have been going put for a while with my bf i think he is ready for the next step(sex) what shuld i do?
He is ready for the next step, but the only thing that matters is whether YOU are ready for the next step. Assuming 98 is your date of birth, it's totally fine if you are not- and if you aren't ready, don't let yourself be pressured into it. If you are ready, if you want to have sex, make sure you are safe and use protection. Since you had to ask us what to do though, I'm guessing you aren't ready?
If you have someone older than you that you trust, it might be a good idea to talk to them about it. It's an awkward topic to bring up, but they've probably been through it and can relate better.
I agree only do it if your ready. The longer the boy can wait the more loyal he is!