sex with an overweight woman

I'm a heavy girl my guy gives me encouragement. just keep looking into her eyes and touching her.telling her how much you love ******** her or whatever it is you use term wise.how beautiful ect.. try different position .cow girl ..doggy.onto p side.that way you can focus on her ass. And face ..happy f*****g ..oh and leave the lights on ..

You sure have that right. Girl has gotta have some meat and nice wide hips. Big girls rock!

no,not much if any. A hymen can broken by simple things like riding a horse. Lubricant can be you're new friend too!

Oh honey, I dont know why you got married in the first place if there was no attraction. This post was awhile ago so hopefully by now you have really good sex. I'm not encouraging cheating but you need to have another heart to heart telling him that you have needs (and you do) so if he wont float your boat-someone else will. My first thought is that hes gay and men his age are still "in the closet" . Life is short. enjoy it!

Spread them cheeks apart! I have the same issue with a bigger butt and thighs but I love when my bf grabbs and pulls them apart the aggression is sexy and so is the deep penetration

I am over 6' and skinny and I have a 6" penis but it is curved a lot. My GF is heavy especially in front and down south so if I lay on top my penis will not reach her opening. doggie is ok but I still don't feel the satisfaction I felt with skinnier women in which I could go balls deep and with my curve I could hit the g spot and most would have a gushing orgasm at least twice before I finished off.

I like my GF but hate it that I can't find a position in which I can get my pelvis close enough to go balls deep :(

Any suggestions?

The sex with her will be absolutely amazing IF you care for her, enjoy being with her, and you have fun.   What is most important is how you 2 feel about each other, not if she's a size 2 or 22.  I've had lovers who were both size 2, one was great, one was terrible.  It had nothing to do with their size, everything to do with the emotional bond between us.  

I'm well over 6'2, a very muscular build and my lover is 5 even and a size 18 or so.   Our lovemaking is FANTASTIC.   Positions?   Of course some we enjoy more than others, but we've never found our sizes had anything to do with what we could or couldn't do.  Its just some couples will enjoy certain positions more than others.   My size 2 lover couldn't handle missionary with her legs up, penetration was too deep and painful!  

So don't worry as much about her size or your size.  If you're with the right partner, it will be great.  If one position doesn't work out that well... so what?   Try something else.   Remember this is fun not a test!   We've tried some things that didn't work that well, and laughed so hard it hurt!   Then we just went onto something else and enjoyed each other immensely.  

Relax, enjoy your partner and her body, have fun, and if you focus on giving her pleasure, trust me, you'll have the time of your life!!!!

Im a bigger girl in highschool i was a 12 started college a size 16.. im currently a size 20 (i just had a baby 3 weeks ago.. so dont judge to harshly) at 10 months pregnant i weighed 286 pounds.. before that i was approx 234 maybe a little less.. ive had sex with bigger guys and it was fulfilling if they know what there doing.. my current bf and bd is skinny very skinny .. and sex with him is always fulfilling for the most part.. in the beginning he got me wet but me cumming was a whole different story now i cum everytime we have sex.. im worried after vaginally giving birth to my 8lb 13oz daughter that im not fulfilling him.. yh it lasts long and we both cum.. before i had my daughter sometimes his approx 6.5'' penis wouldnt fit in my vagina without a little fight which made sex more rewarding i guess .. (idk how to describe it) now im worried that im loose or something.. an im not one of those girls that are comfortable with there weight i use to be well i am.. but his other bm is skinny very skinny and very pretty.. so being naked infront of him makes me uncomfortable and trying different sex psitions makes me uncomfortable sometimes because im so big compared to all the other women hes been with.. so i cant do some of the sh*t hes use to .. i feel like im being judged.. he screwed a chopstick now hes f*****g a porkchop.. it just bothers me.. how do i become more okay with being naked infront of him and willing to try more then missionary.. riding him.. and doggy style.. i want to please him and make him happy he says i do and i believe him most the time.. but i have days where i just feel depressed (i guess) please help thanksss!!

Hi from England

I've just started a relationship with a larger woman, I'm 5ft 11 inch, 160 pounds with an eight inch penis ( not bragging, but size appears to be relative ). I've always liked larger women, but the lady in question is an English size twenty. She also gets very wet very easily which can make things slip out occasionally as she isn't particularly tight, particularly in the missionary position. However, we have experimented and she is very willing to try new things. We have tried the straddling of one of her legs and lifting the other to my shoulder and she professed the penetration to be amazing and very satisfying. Doggy Style was quite effective but will be more so with the tips on these posts ( big thank you guys. I mean it ) same for the missionary as we love to kiss when making love. Anal works in the spooning position, despite the size of her bottom ( which I love by the way ) but possibly thanks to my length? We always engage in oral and extensive foreplay so it will always be satisfying for us both whatever we do afterwards. She was quite body concious at first but with much praise for her obvious charms she is now very relaxed in that respect and spends much time un-subconciously naked in my presence. I look forward to trying it with her on top after reading this blog and will let you know how it goes. Thank God there are so many people out there willing to nullify the modern belief that only thin girls can be sexy. That is sooooo not true. God Bless the larger women of this world, you have it in spades for me!

Salutations from sunny England and whatever you do and whomsoever you do it with, enjoy it together and keep talking xx

Nice one guys!! x

Tell him and go out and find a man u find attractive and ticks your boxes and have sex, you will leave your husband and become much happier in a real intimate relationship, because sex and the closeness that's generated from it are what love is all about, don't miss out anymore go out there and be loved properly xxxx there's plenty of men who will love you for you xx

Try this revert to childhood friendship meaningless conversation curiosity as we are adults and understand the functions of the opposite sex we forget what it was like to be curious. Erase that knowledge and look at her like you've never seen her naked trust me they know when they are being visually undressed. Play card slap jack or something. Progress to ill show you mine games. Tell her you've been undressing her with your eyes she already knows it's tittlating to feel that want and passion make sure your both so hot and sweaty before you think of penetrating her and let her know you won't go there until she breaks a sweat. Guys turn up the thermostats before the game starts. We do t need are units shriveling at this point in the game.

Damn gurl maybe he's gay?

Im 23 and my Husband also im 5' 11 and weigh 280 and he's 6'2 weighs 190 and off the record he is 9 1/2 inches and very thick (yummy) i dont look as big as that sounds because im tall... but sometimes i get self cautious when it comes to sex... but there isnt anything we havent tried ;) btw i have 3 babies all natural! and still so tight :) (keagal exercises) and my favorite is what we call the speed bump : where im laying flat on my tummy and he sits just below my butt and enters my vagina then he pulls my hair or grabs my throat (too my comfort) and kisses my neck and make out from this position! it is very possible. first time i did it i didnt think it was but he sure did surprise me... also doing the wheel barrel: where i lean over on my tummy over the arm of the couch/ chair and he lifts my legs to his hips and thrusts hard ;) or cowgirl with one leg up and he thrusts hard less strain if legs get sore ;) and we do this position where we do a scissors type thing my one leg at his back and other at his front and his legs the same to mine and we hold the leg infront of us and when hes in we both push down to our groin area and omg be ready for an amazing orgasm ;) just a few so missionary and on top get boring goodluck all your all beautiful you can reach ultimate sex and orgasms just step out of your comfort zones :)

Find a new man he doesn't deserve you.

Spread her butt open with your hands and if thats not good enough, use your thumbs to spread her labia open more so you can watch yourself enter her. Im a big girl with a very very big butt and thighs and my hubs has an avg size penis 5.5-6in's and it works wonderfully!!