sex with an overweight woman

if u want i can take u for ride .i m single nd wuld like a girl with realy big breast.

I'm a bigger girl myself, well proportioned, muscular, and fairly flexible.  My BF is average height, weight, and penis is about 7" but he just can't get me off.  I always thought it was because I was bigger...either sex didn't work the same for me, or he's just not attracted to me.  I'm glad to see all these posts, esp. from the ladies showing that it's not the size... It doesn't help my sex life much, but I def feel better knowing there's nothing physically preventing me from orgasming.  Just maybe my physciality prevemnting him from wanting to make me.  Good luck with your new lady!!  Big girls need love too!

 

I would talk to him and tell him your going to find some one to have sex with and you love him but u cant handle it no more!!!!!!!!!!

I'm 380lbs and at my heaviest nearly 500lbs. I've been fat my whole life and have always dated men who were really into bigger women (obviously). I have ALWAYS had great sex and have always left my partner just as satisfied as I am, 6 years and he's not gone anywhere, there were a few others before him. Fatties have great sex too! These tips are all really great especially the side, leg-straddle one! And pillows are your bff. 

Also, the lady who had never consummated her marriage broke my heart. Stop wasting your time girl, get out there and find you someone who will love you and make love to you!

To the woman in the UK. I am so sorry for your situation. I was also in a sexless marriage that was not consummated due to something called vulvar vestibulitis and vaginismus. I had only been with one woman previously and subsequently went 14 years without sex. I am now 41 and divorced though I did not initiate the divorce.  Let me just say those great momentous orgasms can be real. I can count on one hand the number of women I have been with now ... but they all have said I was their best lover. I think it's about being attentive to the other person's needs. I haven't met a woman who couldn't have multiple orgasms ... 4, 5, 6, or counting. :-) It sounds like you guys are not being attentive to each others needs (or at least he isn't). Maybe consider couples therapy / counseling?  If not, you may find yourself seeking a lover ... if not in real life, then at least an online one for sexual erotic chat and maybe even webcam.

I was in a similar situation. Married for 10 years to a 300 pound man with a "micro falice" (under 4 inches when erect) I myself was 230 when married and gained 90 pounds over the next few years. He was a virgin and I had only been with one other man. Although we did have sex, it was infrequent and frankly, boring. Without dragging it out, I simply wanted to say that after an agonizing 10 years of feeling rejected, disgusted, emotionaly disconnected and angry (just to name a few) I learned that he had been sexually abused as a child (like myself) and had developed an aversion to sex. That fact, coupled with issues about his small penis and large body destroyed our marriage. Don't let this happen to you. Find out if it's more than physical and if it is, get help! Sex can be beautiful (size doesn't matter) but if you don't have the emotional and spiritual connection, the physical won't matter either.

I am big, 5'10, 290 and the position of being slightly on the side, him straddling one leg and the other of mine in the air is awesome! It's works amazingly for big and small endowed men! <3 I've been told it's nice because it's lower impact for him, he gets to see and reach all my parts for fondling and pleasure giving, even make eye contact so it can be intimate or intense. It's hard to describe, and you'll have a few mishaps trying to find the groove to get together....but once you do, it's awesome.

I am sure it's true for all women...I can only speak for bigger women (most of my friends are bigger) The best advice you could have is this: It doesn't matter if a woman has no self esteem issues and has all the confidence in the world. Getting it on with someone new is nerve wracking for her too. Did she do it right, does he like that, was that a yes yes sound or a no no sound, am I tight enough, am I moving enough, did we kiss enough, are my bits wobbly? Find a way to remind her she is gorgeous to you clothes on and off, relax, take it slow, worship her body and she'll relax...then make it ok to laugh in the bedroom. Be creative, have fun, bring lube. The rest will sort itself out. <3

try with her sitting on something about hour hip height. or her lying down on her side and you picking up one of her legs and straddling her other leg. or try with her leaning over something like a sofa arm and bending one of her legs up and resting it on the couch

So I've been sleeping with this girl (about 5'2", 160 lbs) and she only likes missionary. I've tried her being on top with great results but she gets tired after 10 min. I hear the side fetal position is good to try but is there anything else? She doesn't want to try doggy because she wants the face to face intimacy. I don't think I've been able to get her to climax once. I want her to be as comfortable as she can with the best possible feeling. I'm about 5'10" height and I'm barely 6" long. Any advice would be great.

He's gay. Divorce him and be a cougar. Thats where the fun is. Because your vaginal area has probably customized itself to the dildo. Get a black man. 

I have been with mostly big women in my life and here is a list of good positions to try: Doggy Style, Bend her over any object and give it to her deep, Lay that sexy bbw on her side and lay behinde her and go deep or same thing lay her on her side put your knee thru so one leg is kinda of floating and go fast and hard on this one, you can always start with her laying side ways or stright off the bed to where her head and big tits are off the bed start with some deep throat head and titty action rather it be grabbing or my girl likes me to pull on her nipples and slap her tits pretty firmly which i love. if you are strong enough i have picked my girl up and put her on my penis then leaned her against the wall and that one goes really deep, the shower prop one leg up on the sledge or side of tub and wrap your arms around her and grab that sexy big ass firmly then go in her good stright up and down on that one.

My lover is 5' even and weighs about 225 to 230, with a big belly, and large thighs, and a very cute butt!  I'm 6'2" 225, muscular build, and am rather well endowed.   We really don't have any issues with sexual positions.  We both have high sexual drives, and very much enjoy each other in numerous positions.  Missionary is no problem, cowgirl, doggie, edge of bed, pillows, T, spooning, we've even tried sofas, ottomans, stairs, you name it.  We've even made love standing against the wall!  About the only one which we have to be very careful about is with her legs on my shoulders, as penetration can be a bit too deep. 

We love to try different positions and if they work (and they usually do) great!  If not we laugh our butts off and just go try something else.  Just go with it and try things and enjoy.  If it works, great, if not, so what, just go onto something else and enjoy! 

I find that using the corners of the bed is best .

If you love him and he loves you in return then he will understand that you are a real woman with real needs and will understand if you seek sex outside the marriage. Sex can be a wonderful thing and very for filling with the right partner.
l myself am married to a larger woman with a normal sex drive and l am happy to engage in sex with her and experiment with different positions toys etc in order to give her enjoyable sex as pleasing her pleases me.
Happy wife happy life.

If you love him and he loves you he will understand you are a real woman with real needs and will understand if you seek sex outside the marriage. Just because you are a bigger girl doesn't mean you are not sexually attractive you and your husband can still have a life together enjoying each others company.l am married to a larger woman with a normal sex drive and have an average size penis of around 6 inches in length l enjoy having sex with her and experiment with different positions toys etc in order to give her the most pleasure l can as pleasing her pleases me.Happy wife happy life.