Sexually confused, am i gay/bisexual/bicurious or what?

Then just go and explore your gay side!

And if you like it then you are gay!

-Have fun!

I myself have the same problem, although i am only 16...recently i started thinking more and more about boys, and i too fantasise about what it would be like to get ***edited by moderator*** ** inappropriate posting** in the ***edited by moderator*** ** inappropriate posting**, i always end up watching gay porn and i ***edited by moderator*** ** inappropriate posting** alot more when watching it. I Have always liked girls up until now, and now im not too sure, am i turning gay? I seem to just like them more as friends but still find some attractive, it is really weird. And i can only ***edited by moderator*** ** inappropriate posting** when thinking about the same sex. Your not the only one who feels like this :(

At the moment, you would be considered as 'bicurious'. You're not 100% sure if you fancy both sexes, so you are effectively curious. And there are tonnes of people like that of all ages! For now, just enjoy whatever gets you going, rather than worrying what you'll end up as (gay, bi, straight etc.)

If you find you start to become sexually attracted to guys, then you might be bisexual. (You're only gay if you are no longer attracted to girls.) But i say "might be". Again, just see what happens. Sooner or later, you'll just know that you do or don't fancy guys, and do or don't fancy girls. In the meantime, it sounds like you are bicurious, so you're sort of in the middle. Nothing wrong with that!

(I'm a 22 year old girl, I've gone from considering myself as straight, then bisexual, then gay, then bicurious, and then bisexual again! I finally knew I was bisexual when I found myself attracted to a girl and had sex with her, and loved it. And I sometimes see an attractive girl and think, "yeah i would love to do the same with her, and see her in pleasure!")

you're probably just bicurious.
but being gay is not that bad, just try to accept it.

p.s., if you are gay, i have always wanted a gay friend. so we can gossip about hot guys and go shopping and stuff.

that would be pretty fun.

get out there and shag some guys if i was old enough i would but be sensible XD

Alright lemme clarify by saying half these people on these forums f*%k other people over labeling them "Bi curious" or "bi sexual" or telling them to adjust. if you find something wrong with those statements chances are you're not any type of gay and you're most likely 3000% straight there is nothing wrong with being gay I think they're awesome people but it's not right to further confuse people sure ya want more supporters for your LGBT rights and stuff and yea there's nothing wrong with exploring your sexually but at the same time it's just further causing confusion my friend what it honestly all sounds like is HOCD look it up. It's basically OCD if you wanna get specific it's Homosexuality OCD. Being Gay is not a choice, you are either born with it or you're not at all. How do you explain bi sexuality then? Simple. At the start of the sexual development years (8-11) they knew that they were attracted to both sexes and they loved it they never denied it and if they did repress it; it would surface back in their adult life. But let's get this clear they knew at a young a age. So let's take it more deeper on this forum I see a lot more females claiming they where comfortable claiming bi after the confusion and well that is because females are more open with their sexuality why do you think they are comfortable with going to the bathroom with each other. It's rather simple also! quit porn. It's rotting your brain it's creating artificial tastes. Your brain is like plastic and can be molded.

I do agree with your stance on porn. Porn is an unrealistic deception to the viewers mind. Sex is one of the greatest gifts given to mankind and can be enjoyed by hetero, bi and homo sexual people from adolescence to even the elderly. It can be just as great without porn.

OMG who pi**ed on your cheerios. It's people like you that confuse the issue. do you even know what OCD is.

I, like many do, believe that everyone is somewhere along the sexual spectrum from 100% gay to 100% straight. Many of us continue to be arousable, to coin a phrase, by the same sex, and that often plays into our heterosexual activities. I'm sure the reverse is true as well. Our sexuality evolves and adjusts as we mature, but we retain strong influences from our infancy and early childhood. Your attraction to males, for example may stem from a long forgotten feeling you had as a baby when you were placed on a man's belly, perhaps, or bathed together. And responding to "she-male" sex is kind of the best of both worlds, isn't it? Don't sabotage your sexual feelings by worrying that you are feeling something you "shouldn't", or NOT feeling something you should. Our sexuality is a very delicate mix of sensations, memories and desires. Try to accept, enjoy and explore the feelings and sensations you experience, without expectations as to whether you should or shouldn't feel them. They are all part of you, and do not have to be in conflict. They don't make you "weird", or "sick". You need not express these things out loud to anyone you are with sexually, unless you believe you can be that kind of intimate with them. The things that turn you on secretly are yours and yours alone. They are special to who you are, and need not be shared with anyone. This does not mean they are "wrong" or "deviant" in any way. You may even find that that special person in your life is ALSO turned on by exploring the same kinds of "opposites" as you. Anyone who judges you negatively for the things you feel is not likely to be someone who should be in your life for very long anyway.

And what has been said elswhere here is correct: porn is designed to get you off by hitting on things deep in your psyche, most of which you are not even aware at this point. When it comes to loving another person, sexually or otherwise, remember this -- it really doesn't matter what "bits" are on the outside, does it? Everyone wants to feel loved, special and attractive in someone else's eyes. Be a kind, gentle, enthusiastic and considerate lover -- whichever sex you are with -- and you should get the same in return.