I'm a virgin, but not a strict virgin. I've done things like giving him oral & he's given it to me. I've done hand jobs & lie naked together etc.
The other day, this guy who I've just started seeing asked to finger me. I have heard you bleed etc & shouldnt that happen if you actually have sex.
I heard you still are but wont be innocent anymore. If its not ok for a penis, it's not ok for a finger right? I've heard its called 'not all the way'.
I've fingered myself but that's different cause its my body not his. A friend told me she got fingered & she bled. After she got sick & is still not over it.
So if he asks me again should I say no, or just dump him now? I don't want to do something I regret. If I remain a virgin down there forever, I'm fine with it.
Thanks for your help.
The other day, this guy who I've just started seeing asked to finger me. I have heard you bleed etc & shouldnt that happen if you actually have sex.
I heard you still are but wont be innocent anymore. If its not ok for a penis, it's not ok for a finger right? I've heard its called 'not all the way'.
I've fingered myself but that's different cause its my body not his. A friend told me she got fingered & she bled. After she got sick & is still not over it.
So if he asks me again should I say no, or just dump him now? I don't want to do something I regret. If I remain a virgin down there forever, I'm fine with it.
Thanks for your help.
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i personally think it all comes down to the question "are you comfortable with someone else fingering you". i think that bleeding can be caused by going too crazy with your fingers a bit too soon! should start slow and steady first, until it feels natural for you. try explaining to him that you dont think your ready for him to do that, if he really cares about you, he will understand. if not, then your better of dumping him in my opinion. oh and, a little finger here and there wont mean your not a virgin anymore. im not a professional adviser, but i hope i helped.
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I think if you like him fingering you then you will slowly want more then sex. It's all about your control if you think you can handle the next step then go for it you will still be a virgin unless him penis goes inside you, your fine.
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I agree, it's all right to get fingered here and there, just make sure if you don't want it to lead to anything else make sure he knows that!
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