I am a 14 year old Boy, and one of my super close friends, a girl, asked me at lunch a while back if I Wanted to have sex with her. While she was asking, under the lunch table she put her hand on my penis and made me super turned on.
She said to call whenever I feel like it, and now I kind of am. But I want to make sure if even though we love eachother, we should wait or not.
I know all about the sex stuff and STD's, I know all the risks. I just don;t know what to say to her.
Any help.
Thanks.
She said to call whenever I feel like it, and now I kind of am. But I want to make sure if even though we love eachother, we should wait or not.
I know all about the sex stuff and STD's, I know all the risks. I just don;t know what to say to her.
Any help.
Thanks.
Your young and its hard for her as it is for you not to have sex yet and this can cause one or the other (maybe not you) to find someone else. It would be wrong of me to say have sex and at the same time let you lose someone you love because of this since she asked to have sex and your asking what to do that could happen.
Ask her (not over the phone) if she feels unsure about having sex now and if she asks you how you feel just say you've happy with what she says and you will still be with her either way, but if she says yes shes not going to wait.
I know you said you know about sex stuff but both of you should take/use protection if it comes to that.
Ask her (not over the phone) if she feels unsure about having sex now and if she asks you how you feel just say you've happy with what she says and you will still be with her either way, but if she says yes shes not going to wait.
I know you said you know about sex stuff but both of you should take/use protection if it comes to that.
I SEE THAT YOU ARE NOT AS READY FOR THIS AS SHE IS. BECAUSE IF YOU WERE, YOU WOULDN'T NEED HELP. SO IN THAT I FEEL THAT YOU SHOULD WAIT. IF SHE IS AS BIG A FRIEND AS YOU SAY SHE IS, THEN SHE'LL BE THERE FOR YOU THROUGH WHATEVER. IF SHE LEAVES, THEN MAYBE IT'S NOT SO MUCH THAT SHE'S SOOO turned on THAT SHE'S GONNA GET IT SOMEWHERE, BUT THAT SHE IS SOMEWHAT EMBARRASSED THAT YOU ARE STRONGER THAN SHE IS. LETS BE HONEST. YOU CAN'T MISS WHAT YOU NEVER HAD. BUT ONCE IT'S GONE, THEN IT'S GONE. HOLD OUT FOR A WHILE LONGER. GET INVOLVED IN SOME ACTIVITIES TO KEEP YOUR MIND CLEAR. BECAUSE TRUTH BE TOLD, WHAT'S TO SAY SHE WON'T STILL LET YOU GO IMMDIATELY OR SHORTLY AFTER YOU GIVE HER WHAT SHE WANTS? LIFE IS SO FUNNY LIKE THAT.
well, first, you should proceed with caution ! ask her if she was serious about having sex with you and why, when she asks you why you want to have sex, say something sweet like ' because you are gorgeous and i really like you' second, ask her how she wants to have sex, there are many ways of doing it, and you should always start off with forplay to make her more comfortable and willing. kiss her body and always keep your hands on her !
You should tell her maybe when your in collage. Or if she says now make sure when you have sex and you stick the penis in (which feels great) her vegina make sure you don't cum. Or she'll get pregnant so don't be a daddy
Hmm right, dont take any risk, else you . . . . . . . . lill baby dady.
Im 14 and pregnant with twins bouth girls if u are ready to be a dad go for it