i am 15 and i am always moaned ad shouted at and upset by my lsa and i am too afraid to ask her for help because then she will say well ypou should of listened and then she will tell this person whos in harge of stuff to do with family and that and shes nice to me because i talk to her and my lsa will tell her that i am not listening whe i am then she will tell my mum and i already get stressed out from her because muy mum becuse she gets angry easily aand i always feel sick and have headaches and always stressed out and she will then lecture me about listening to people. I am just scared of going into school and i am eating less now and loosing weight which is good coz im fat but i hate feeling like this and i cannot tell the person whos in charge of the family stuff because i already had my lsa cha ged last year because she kept on sitting next to me which i didnt like but i do not mind that now and the school will not be happy if i ask to chang her again and she will be fuming if i tell diane (the person who is in charge of family stuff) because diane will have to tell my lsa oplease help i dont know what to do my lsa's always shoutig at me walking off and going too tslk to thee popular people and leaves me and my unpopular mates alone :-(
You learning support assistant’s job is to help you feel comfortable in school and to help you to get as good as you can. She doesn’t have to like you, or be all that nice to you all together but she definitely isn’t doing her job if she is shouting and making you feel even more uncomfortable in the school than you already are. Is there anyone who you could talk to about this problem, maybe in school or in family besides your mother and that person who is in charge of your family matters? I think that you should first try that, so that people around you find out what she is doing without you telling on her.
no theres no-one
Well there must be someone who’s job is to control and monitor the job your learning support assistant does and I don’t think that is the same person that you mention who’s duty is to watch over your family, Diane. Diane can at least talk to your LSA and hear what she says about all this. No one needs to mention anything about changing your LSA or anything, you can try to go and see this person Diane and ask her if she could find out why your LSA is behaving this way. And what if she tells her? Can she possibly behave worse than she is behaving now?
slap the b***h. show her how you feel about her behaviour. i just think that not-on! if your not for slapping her, then give her a ear-full. you need to stand up for yourself ;-)
How very sad! It is your LSA's job to support you in school, and if you are scared and uncomfortable, then she is actually hurting you and not helping. If you are having problems understanding or doing work, she needs to help you overcome these difficulties, not scold you.
Your school should have a SENco (Special Educational Needs co-ordinator) - this is someone with whom you would regularly meet (once a term?) to discuss your learning goals and progress. She would be in charge of your LSA. Tell your teacher (not your LSA) that you would like to meet with her on your own. Or you could talk to your Head Teacher.
Don't be scared. You are NOT in trouble. It would be MUCH worse to do nothing about this. Trust me, either your SENco or your Head will be understanding and helpful.
Good luck, and best wishes!
Your school should have a SENco (Special Educational Needs co-ordinator) - this is someone with whom you would regularly meet (once a term?) to discuss your learning goals and progress. She would be in charge of your LSA. Tell your teacher (not your LSA) that you would like to meet with her on your own. Or you could talk to your Head Teacher.
Don't be scared. You are NOT in trouble. It would be MUCH worse to do nothing about this. Trust me, either your SENco or your Head will be understanding and helpful.
Good luck, and best wishes!
its alright she quit,but thanks anyway :-)