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Hiii. can someone lose their virginity when their drunk and not remember it and also not know it after wards (like in couple of days)?
i had no pain the next day but had my period 2 days after the night.

please help me i need to know if im still a virgin or not!
Unfortunately, yes. Lots of things can happen when you're drunk. You could have been drugged as well.

There is really no way to tell if you are still a virgin. Even a gynecological exam can be inconclusive.
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But i didn't feel any pain. no unusual feeling when using toilet!
because i hurt it would hurt? is there any specific signs that would make this clear??!!1
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OK, I'm a bit confused.

Why do you think you lost your virginity? Did someone tell you that you did something? Is there some other sign?

Normally, on the first time, there would be some pain and possibly bleeding.

I'm not sure what you mean "because I hurt it would hurt?"
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sory i ment to say "because i thought it would hurt the first time of having sex"...

noone told me anything but i was with my boyfriend (my ex now) and i do remember some parts of the night. when he fingered me and i pulled back because it hurted abit...
wen i woke up i wasn't fully clothed, but didn't see any blood on my bed...
i did ask him, he said "no", but i couldn't trust what he said.
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OK, I would think some pain or discomfort afterwards would be normal, especially if you weren't conscious of it.

This is a hard question to answer. If you saw blood it would have most likely been from a torn hymen, but you didn't. So, either your hymen was broken before, it can happen naturally, or you weren't penetrated. I just don't know.

If you think something happened, without your permission, then talk to the police. It doesn't matter what was done, you may have been assaulted. They can do tests, looking for evidence of semen, any trauma, etc., but it needs to be done soon.

If you can't trust your ex-boyfriend then it would not be out of line to go to the police. They will help you and put you in contact with people that can help you in this situation and find out what happened.
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that's the confusion for myself bcuz i didn't have any kind of pain afterwards and i don't do sport to lose torn the hymen that way!

so, does this mean im still a virgin?!!
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The hymen can tear from a variety of things not just sports. Even putting in a tampon may tear it. It is likely that it would tear more during your first intercourse however.

No one can say with 100% certainty if you are a virgin if you can't recall having sex. If you think he entered you then you are not a virgin. If he didn't then you are. It's that simple.

Sorry I can't give you a more definitive answer.
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well thanks for ur help. it was good to know these informations.
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I wish I could have given you the answer you were looking for but it is just not possible.
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