Hi, I have already posted on here about my situation before, but i didnt get much feedback. My last regular period was October ninth and me and my boyfriend had unprotected anal sex on the 21st. the day before we had unprotected vaginal sex, but he didnt come close to ejaculating or anything and he never did that nite. then the next day was when we had unprotected anal sex. During, he did stick it in my vagina on occassion, just mainly to keep it wet enough. He did cum in my anus, and after i went to the bathroom and saw it in the toilet. when i wiped i wiped my front first and then the back. which i really regret doing now. I dont know if i touched it with the tp or anything when i wiped my front first, but im hoping i didnt. My friend looked at an ovulation calender and typed in the ninth of my last period, and it said i would start ovulating on the 23rd. i didnt get cramps a whole week after the sex, but i started getting them during the first week of the month of november and they lasted for about two weeks. I have been stressing about it so much even tho i have been trying not to. then i got my period on the 14th last month. which is five days later than it was last month. i do typically have irregular periods, and my periods r pretty influenced by my emotions. but when i got my period last month it was lighter, and lasted 5 days. i did have to wear tampons on all of those days, but it never really completely filled it. there was some uterine tissue when i was bleeding those five days. I dont know if having anal sex for the first time can affect ur periods at all but it was the first time i have ever done it. after it ended, the cramping stopped for two weeks. and then i started getting cramps again. when i plugged in my last months date into the calender, it said i was ovulating. so that lead me to believe that i was ohk. im still cramping even till today. its been two weeks again and i have two days till my periods due. if it was infact my period last month. but my lower bladder region feels like its bulged out a bit, which i find is odd. starting yesterday i have been using the bathroom alot. and i do have alot of headaches. but thats not rly anything too new, since my mom suffers from chronic migranes, and i get alot of headaches like she does. ive been so scared latley and i dont know what to think. everybody says that im not but i cant help but tell myself i am. i would be about a month in a half pregnant if its true i conceived in october. i dont have any sore breasts or anything, and sometimes i get a somewhat nauseous feeling below my breast bone. but i do think i have a developing stomach ulcer because i used to overdose on pain meds. i dont know what to think or what to do. i plan on taking a pregnancy test this weekend if my period does not come in the next two days. but if anyone can tell me what this sounds like please let me know. i have no symptoms other than headaches and that i had a wierd period. and lately ive been using the bathroom alot. which i guess are quite a few... i just cant be pregnant and im so afraid i am. i just dont understand why my lower stomach feels tight and bulged out slightly. what could this be?? pleaseeeee help
i feels the same way
What are your symptoms? i dont know whats going on with me but im going to the bathroom appx every two hours which is very weird for me. im so confused because my bleeding was more than implantion bleeding, but it was almost too light to b my period. so idk if i got it or not? soo hard to tell
I think im starting to get a bladder infection. because now when im done using the bathroom, theres a burning feeling. but when i went to the bathroom so i saw tiny particles in the toilet, and i wiped and there was a very very light pink smear on it. it was there the second time i wiped too. but i went to the bathroom a few hours after and there was nothing. i still have two days until my period is to start, but idk if this is just me about to start or what. im so confused on what to think. someone PLEASE give me some kind of feedback!!!
So did you get any response? any luck with the pregnancy test?
I did end up taking a pregnancy test on about the 12th i wanna say, and it came back negative. i just got a period on monday and its still going on right now, but once again its light. its a bit heavier than last months, but still not normal. im still not having any pregnancy symptoms, but im gonna take a test next week just to be certain. its been exactly two months today since i had sex and so far nothing seems to b up other than my periods being light. ill write back with my results of next weeks test tho!
So have you been cleared? Are you pregnant? if you are still worried I suggest you go see a doctor and get checked. Plus their pregnancy test are much more accurate so I defiantly suggest seeing a doctor
yes i was cleared from being pregnant :) it has been about 5 months since the act and not one symptom. as soon as i stopped worrying all my symptoms stopped. thank you all for your concern and help with all of this!!