I just lost my virginity a couple nights ago; when my boyfriend and I have sex, I get this extremely weird pressure and it feels like I have to urinate reaaly bad... even if I have completely emptied my bladder.
I've had to interupt us having sex to go to the bathroom several times, but nothing comes out!
This is so strange; is it normal? Will it go away..? Where does this come from?
I've had to interupt us having sex to go to the bathroom several times, but nothing comes out!
This is so strange; is it normal? Will it go away..? Where does this come from?
This sensation is usually from the pressing of the g-spot (para-urethral sponge). Its about 2 inch in and located at the roof of the vagina (when laid on your back). Its a spongy tissue filled with lots of nerve endings that connect to the rest of the entire vagina. Very sensitive to the touch, it can create lots of pleasure throughout the vagina if used properly.
Certain angles of penetration can give pleasure via the head of the penis rubbing this part of the vagina. Its perfectly natural to feel like you need to use the toilet. In time you'll learn to accept that you don't really need to and enjoy it more.
Your boyfriend, or yourself can practice getting used to the feeling by inserting a finger and doing a gentle 'come here' movement with the finger upwards towards the belly button. You'll know when you've found the 'g-spot' as it'll be different from the rest of the vagina, like a walnut in size and covered with small ridges. however, you'll only be able to find it when you're sexually excited as it retracts when you're not.
Certain angles of penetration can give pleasure via the head of the penis rubbing this part of the vagina. Its perfectly natural to feel like you need to use the toilet. In time you'll learn to accept that you don't really need to and enjoy it more.
Your boyfriend, or yourself can practice getting used to the feeling by inserting a finger and doing a gentle 'come here' movement with the finger upwards towards the belly button. You'll know when you've found the 'g-spot' as it'll be different from the rest of the vagina, like a walnut in size and covered with small ridges. however, you'll only be able to find it when you're sexually excited as it retracts when you're not.