Stretched vagina flaps

thank god i am exavctly the same been freaking out about it for ages now! so glad to know there are so many other girls like this!

Its refreshing that others out there have this same problem.I roll mines up like a curtain, I can actually put gifts in mine. OMG!

DO NOT WORRY! I know how it feels, but try and focus on the rest of your body. I do regular squats and sit ups, it gives you a lot more confidence. Be careful about tugging the vagina lips so much as this can stretch them over time. If you are planning to have sexual contact, try putting ice or cold water on the lips for a few minutes. It doesn't do a great deal but for a short period, they reduce in size and hopefully gives you enough confidence. Although, I was scared at first..most boys won't even comment on how it looks. Everyone has their downfalls.

Are you guys sure it's normal? I get so afraid when people try to give me oral sex, I need heeelp badly I'm so embarrassed by it

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Im 15 and have the same problem. my inner lavia are both stretched and wrinkly...as well as the hood of my clitoris. Im so self concious of it and I havnt had sex before and rarely mastrobate..so i dont know what caused it but I have had it for years.

My name is Ashley and im 17.I have a wrinkly brown clit that is big like this.  Im am really embarrassed too, but i have a boyfriend of four years and we've had sex alot and so on. My point is, is that he loves me and he doesnt care he likes it. If your worried about your boyfriend caring then test him. If he doesn't approve then well...you should be with him anyway. We are normal. 

I'm 17 and have the same problem! I've never had sex or done anything 'down there' before and it's really embarrassing. Both my vagina flaps are really long :/ I've been with my boyfriend for 5 months and I think I'm ready to go to the next step. He's been with quite a few girls before me and I'm really worried he might compare mine to other and think it's gross how 'flappy' I am down there :/ any advise given will be much appreciated, so good to see from all these comments that I'm not the only one like this!

Are you sure that's your clit? That sounds like it would be the hood. Have you tried pulling that upward to see what's under it? Your clit should look sort of like a tiny penis, smooth and pink.

He's going to love everything you have "down there" because it's your unique vulva and now it's also his.

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 It's not a gross fetish. All vaginas are beautiful no matter what size, shape, color, or how long the lips are. If you're having so much discomfort while having sex you might need to try different positions. Or also try using lube to moisten the area. What it boils down to is that all you beautiful females are way too self conscious about that area. If someone makes fun or pokes fun at you about your vagina then he is a loser and doesn't deserve to be near your prized area. Personally to be I'd rather have a female with something to get my lips on and not a lipless vagina so I'm smashing my face into her pelvic area smothering myself.

It's great to hear from a guy with your attitude. You must really appreciate the female form. My labia is a bit uneven and dark in color and sometimes it makes me insecure. I'm going to try to appreciate what I have...

Mines like that too. I'm only 14 but... Well I'm not an innocent little girl anymore. My boyfriend never even acknowledged it. I don't really think boys think much of it. Like us girls we tend to over think everything but boys well they kinda go with the flow more. I really don't think they think much of it but I know how you guys feel. I'm still very embarrassed and freaked out over it. They're like big and wrinkly... I would like help too.

I have exactly the same thing and have contemplated getting surgery but don't know what to do. One of mine is longer than the other and hangs down, It is very very very embarrassing but not one guy I have been with has noticed it. Is it worth surgery?!?!?!

Hi I'm 16 and I've never had sex. I have the same thing you have and yeah I use to be embarrassed of them but now I'm fine with it.. Nobody is perfect! A guy shouldn't make fun of you because that's like us making fun of his size. It's not right to do that. Everyone is different. God made you that way so don't be ashamed or embarrassed.