Stretched vagina flaps

To all of you who are concerned about having vaginal flaps, there's actually a name for them. It's called having a stretched labia. I have it too, and was/am very self conscious about it. But, as many of the above comments have stated, most guys really don't care and or know that it's fairly common/normal.HOWEVER, if you would like to go the route of getting it "fixed", there are options out there.

google search: labiaplasty gynaecologist plastic surgeon And type in your state/city along with that. That will bring up the surgeons in your area that can fix you up. I'm considering having it done myself. But, remember that having them is normal and unless they are causing discomfort or are hanging out further than an inch outside, than it's not really necessary for you to change yourself.It's important to embrace your differences. We're all different and should all be comfortable with who we are and how we were made. But if they are causing discomfort and are hanging longer than an inch out and you are extremely uncomfortable with them, then there are options for you out there. Personally, if I go the route of surgery, will NOT go to just a plastic surgeon that does this, but an ACTUAL gynaecologist surgeon.It is important to do your research before going under any knife.And there are a lot of potential risks involved with this surgery, so why not reduce the risks some by going to someone that is an actual trained gynaecologist AND surgeon that performs this operation?! Also, make sure you go to someone that has AT LEAST 5-10 years experience in this surgery before you let them go near you. lol.

Good luck, ladies! <3

I'm 14 and I have the same problem..it's big I was worried I had something wrong with me and I don't wanna go to the doctors and show them my vagina

ok i have the same thing...stretched.  i've had sex with over 50 guys (don't judge) and not one single complaint.  not one.  so...don't worry about it.

Hi girlies,Okay so i am 17, nearly 18. I'm quite your normal girl, and yes have intentions to be sexually active as well. I have had the same problem as you all since i was 12 i believe. to get quite specific, one of my labia minora is quite longer and larger than the other. it is wrinkly, it is like a bruised colour and is not pleasant to look at. I have held off any sexual activity until a week ago because i always believed my body was too 'abnormal' to love. But until recent times, i decided, i can't wait forever for someone to experience my body as well, so i let a trusted boy in my life finger me and have sex with me. it was extremely nerve racking but in the moment, you really do forget about all your worries. if he respects YOU as a person enough, he won't notice and if he does he wont say anything. I'm not committed with this guy but even after that eventful morning (yes that's right it happened with light in the room, it wasn't dark) he continued to hang out and talk to me, and even wants to continue doing stuff and getting closer, so i guess it didnt bother him. and this is a guy that every girl in highschool wants type of person. he used to have every everything he wants, get any girl he could but he chose me and he isn't letting go anytime soon. so i hope this boosts some confidence. I have watched documentry after documenty and episode of embarresing bodies after episodes, ive read forums and topic pages and i've found comfort in the fact that many women are like me, and guys just need to accept the fact that we don't all have the 'perfect tucked' vagina. You can not do anything about nature, (Well you can, there is surgery) but why should we have to put ourselves through more and more pain each time we want to please someone else. Stand your own ground and just accept who you are, guys love confidence and if they tease you about your body, then they do not deserve to have your sexy self laying next to them!!!

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im like this as well im really scared because i dont want to have the mick taken out of me im 14 and dont wanna get fingered cuzz when i told one of my friends i had a fall out with them then they told people i got called beef curtains and chicken wings :(

Same with me! I'm only 13 and mine is exactly the same, I hate it! I feel like I could never have sex!

first of all let me say as a guy, you should be proud of your bodies. i am so turned on by the female body no matter how different they may look. as long as it is normal which it is. you should be proud. it's things like this that really excite me. as for anyone making fun of you, they are immature idiots. love your bodies how they are. i know i do.

Im 16 & I had the same problem since I was 12, It is embarresing. I have been with same guy for almost 2 years now. I trust him & we have had sex because I trusted him & he doesn't mind it at all. He has been the only guy to see it & I only want to be with him, If we break up I will be too embarressed to show anyone else. I do the same with a bathing suit, I hate it. But it's life & I get over it.I wear shorts in the summer time over my bottoms, it is too embarressing to walk around with one lip longer, it is sorta noticable. I am very uncomfortable about it too. I try to forget about it a lot. & after I read all of these I feel about it. Thanks!! 

Also know that a vagina that is not called a "beef curtain" is called a "camel toe" vagina. It's mens stupid way of having a funny name for any kind of vagina. its not like some are called good and some are called bad, its that they are all called something stupid like "camel toe"... do you think of sexy when you think of a camels toe? every type of vagina has a "comical" name that man created.

Have you girls noticed a pattern? You ALL have this, because you're all normal! Don't be so scared, more than half of all women have large labia, and the other half don't, it's perfectly normal, and each guy (or girl) will like something different, and you can't be afraid of who you are or how you're built, personally, I PREFER large labia, not to be graphic but it's something nice to nibble on when I'm down there, and looks nice when it wraps around my "member" during sex, I find small labia boring and less attractive. So, just love yourself, if it's a concern, ask your patter if they care, tell them this is who you are, and you want them to like you, but ultimately if they care about you, it won't matter.

Every girls is different! No reason to be ashamed of what you have! Its a part of you! Every girls is unique! 

I have the same and in scared what my boyfriend will think and do cause it's so ugly

I always thought I was odd because of a bad experience when I was younger but I have a loving boyfriend and I told him about my lips and he didn't care because he loves me and recently i just let go of my fear and let him eat me out and he didn't have a problem with me at all he enjoyed it and I feel so much better cus I'm not odd I'm normal and to all of you out there with the same problem don't worry just let go of your self consciousness. And live and love your body 

trust me, if your bf gets to see your vagina, he is going to feel lucky! Don't be so hard on yourself!