I was abstaining for a year, am 39 and having horrible periods. 1-2 a month, excessive bleeding, cramping etc for 6 months. I ended my abstinence with my ex-bf this weekend, and am pretty sure ovulating. Long story short, he didn't pull out as he normally would've (probably thinks I can't get preg - wouldn't be intentional), and I didn't realize. I didn't say anything at the moment. We did again, and he did pull out that time, but I still could tell there was pre-ejac or something when I went to the bathroom. TMI... I'm sure. I'm worried now, not wanting to get preg, but wondering if thre are any thoughts on the possibility that I'm not fertile, and after a year of not having sex it would be unlikely to get preg in 1-2 times.
O.k. I know I can get pregnant by just one sperm just one time... and so on. I guess I'm wanting more speculative discussion to ease my fears. Lol.