Just go to the park with her and her step brother and leave the picnic until it's just you and her. Ask her when you next speak to her what they want to do when they come over.
You need to realise that a lot of woman specially once out of there teens have a lower sex drive if she feels your wanting sex every time then she is going to go off wanting any kind of sexual contact.
Just be close to her the weekend don't try to kiss when her step bro is there unless she kisses you then just give her a kiss back. You need to understand that it could also be a fact that your girlfriend feels that you only want her to come over to have sex every time and that's another reason she is going off sex now.
You need to realise that a lot of woman specially once out of there teens have a lower sex drive if she feels your wanting sex every time then she is going to go off wanting any kind of sexual contact.
Just be close to her the weekend don't try to kiss when her step bro is there unless she kisses you then just give her a kiss back. You need to understand that it could also be a fact that your girlfriend feels that you only want her to come over to have sex every time and that's another reason she is going off sex now.
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so i went to pick up my girlfriend and her step bro .we went for a drive downtown then pick up something to eat then we went to the park and ate there .there was no sex at all. we just held hand and a peck kiss once in a while .she was very happy .i had never seen her so happy before .it went well no stress on me and no pressure on her .we had a really good time . do you think i should start thinking about a sexless relationship? or should i keep trying?
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You don't need to think of it as a sexless relationship just keep it like that if she is happy doing stuff like that and when she feels ready to try and have intercourse again she will let you know, all the time you are putting pressure on her to have sex then she is going to feel the need to select you if she isn't ready or comfortable.
Just let things develop naturally between you and if you have to masturbate a couple times before you pick her up so there is less chance of you getting aroused when your with her.
Just let things develop naturally between you and if you have to masturbate a couple times before you pick her up so there is less chance of you getting aroused when your with her.
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i know i have to be patient with her i feel kind of depress because it seems to me i cant do my maniy duty. im okay being around her and not be aroused if i prepare myself mentaly before i see her .its hard but i can do it .its been about one week or so we havent had sex of any kind and i feel a need for it .i need to have some sort of sex with her .how long do i wait to bring her to my apartment alone ?and how long do you think she can wait and not have sex with me?i know women have needs too how long can women go without haveing sex in general? i know as for me i cant go long .
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It has nothing to do with manly duty not every woman want sex all the time every time you see them, a lot of woman can go without sex an it not bother them or some prefer to masturbate because they know just how to hit the right spot like no man can.
The time will be right when and only when she decides no one will be able to tell you when she is going to want to do anything sexual, you can still take her back to your apartment but do something else like watch a movie on tv. You say you can control yourself but then you say you need some sort of sex with her well to me that isn't being in control! If you keep feeling the need to have sex every time your with her then masturbate more until that feeling goes away. Find out what she would like to do at the weekend when you talk to her on the phone the when the weekend comes make that time you have together special and as I have said don't pressure her an make feel she has to have sexual contact most woman are just as happy to go look round the shops or go for a nice walk in the park.
The time will be right when and only when she decides no one will be able to tell you when she is going to want to do anything sexual, you can still take her back to your apartment but do something else like watch a movie on tv. You say you can control yourself but then you say you need some sort of sex with her well to me that isn't being in control! If you keep feeling the need to have sex every time your with her then masturbate more until that feeling goes away. Find out what she would like to do at the weekend when you talk to her on the phone the when the weekend comes make that time you have together special and as I have said don't pressure her an make feel she has to have sexual contact most woman are just as happy to go look round the shops or go for a nice walk in the park.
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i dont know about my grirlfriend ,but at the same time there are women that get very frustrated when they dont have sex. my girlfriend hasnt demonstrated that to me but there has to be some sort of frustration in her .i know that happens to me. and i know masterbation is good and it does give some relive but aint nothing like the real thing .do all women masterbate ?what is the percentage that dont or do?and is it possible that my girfriend masterbate or is it more possible that she doesnt?
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There are less woman around that have a real high sexy drive compared to males especially makes in there mid teens to late twenties, there is no real true figures for how many woman masturbate but the range statistics show in from 17.9% to 92.6% so as you can see it's something that can't be answered.
Most woman will try it at least once as to wether your girlfriend does I don't know as for her being frustrated she may just have a low sex drive and any needs she does get she overcomes.
As I have told you before there is more to a relationship than just sex and he your girlfriend feels like she is being pressured for sex every time she comes over then your just going to push her away and eventually your loose her you have already had her bring her step brother and I would say that was a big sign that by doing that she knew nothing sexual could happen.
My advice to you is if you want to keep her then just be patient doesn't matter how long it takes and when she feels ready she will let you know other wise if you feel you can't wait then you need to let her go and find another woman who can for fill your needs, any woman will get bored of constant sex though after a while if they feel that's all a relationship is based on.
Just because you see in porn movies about woman craving sex 24/7 it's not like that in real life.
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well that made me more depress that i have to let her go which i wont do not in a millon years .so there could be women that dont masterbate but it low numbers right?and i dont think this realationship is based on just sex i hug her every time i see her ,kiss her ,rub her shoulder .make her laugh talk about life ect .if any body would leave it would be her and it would be for intercorse only [or to find another penis] because thats the only thing i cant give her .and i am trying to be patient with her but it seems like im running out of time because we really havnt had intercourse at least not good intercourse .i cant even make her pregnant at least not naturally i would love to have kids with her in the near future and i think the stress doesnt help im going to see her this weekend bring her to my apt .and im going to try to have intercourse with her i will be very patient with her and let her take all her time i wont rush anything even if it takes all night . what do you think? .im nervous and need advise
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As blankcanvas has told you it's not just about sex and what you want you have to think about her as well, if your girl is happy to be in a sexless relationship for the time being them that's how it should be.
You say your patient with her and do other things them in the same conversation you start on about having sex with her and wanting kids in the near future, STOP THINKING ABOUT WHAT YOU WANT! Your girlfriend is an independent woman and would probably like a career he she has been studying at collage before she settles down, to me you maybe in your country you dominated woman in past generations but that's not how it is now woman are independent and don't want that now, if you don't stop just thinking about what you want all the time your going to loose her.
Blankcanvas has given you a lot of good advice that you can't seem to take in and understand so if you want to keep her do what he says!
You say your patient with her and do other things them in the same conversation you start on about having sex with her and wanting kids in the near future, STOP THINKING ABOUT WHAT YOU WANT! Your girlfriend is an independent woman and would probably like a career he she has been studying at collage before she settles down, to me you maybe in your country you dominated woman in past generations but that's not how it is now woman are independent and don't want that now, if you don't stop just thinking about what you want all the time your going to loose her.
Blankcanvas has given you a lot of good advice that you can't seem to take in and understand so if you want to keep her do what he says!
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As blankcanvas has told you it's not just about sex and what you want you have to think about her as well, if your girl is happy to be in a sexless relationship for the time being them that's how it should be.
You say your patient with her and do other things them in the same conversation you start on about feeling like your running out of time and having sex with her and wanting kids in the near future, why do you want do you want all this so fast if your only 19 because he your right together you have a lifetime, sex isn't just intercourse it can be anything that leads to intercourse ie kissing massage hugging her because in other posts you have made you say you find it hard to hold back and get carried away, STOP THINKING ABOUT WHAT YOU WANT ALL THE TIME! Your girlfriend is an independent woman and would probably like a career he she has been studying at collage before she settles down, to me you maybe in your country you dominated woman in past generations but that's not how it is now woman are independent and don't want that now, if you don't stop just thinking about what you want all the time your going to loose her.
Blankcanvas has given you a lot of good advice that you can't seem to take in and understand so if you want to keep her do what he says!
You say your patient with her and do other things them in the same conversation you start on about feeling like your running out of time and having sex with her and wanting kids in the near future, why do you want do you want all this so fast if your only 19 because he your right together you have a lifetime, sex isn't just intercourse it can be anything that leads to intercourse ie kissing massage hugging her because in other posts you have made you say you find it hard to hold back and get carried away, STOP THINKING ABOUT WHAT YOU WANT ALL THE TIME! Your girlfriend is an independent woman and would probably like a career he she has been studying at collage before she settles down, to me you maybe in your country you dominated woman in past generations but that's not how it is now woman are independent and don't want that now, if you don't stop just thinking about what you want all the time your going to loose her.
Blankcanvas has given you a lot of good advice that you can't seem to take in and understand so if you want to keep her do what he says!
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I think you are not going to get any nooky BIG boy and it serves you right for having such a big tool, I am so glad I saw this because I have always been considered smallish just over six and a half on the horn but pretty thick and able to satisfy all the girls I have been with, better get those fingers working and maybe a fake p***y from the sex shop.
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yea i know and thats what im afraid of because if she dont get it from me she will get it somewhere else and also this is what i was born with and i have to deal with those card for the rest of my life most girls ive been with there eyes open wide when they see me and you know what, its no joke its fustrating and stressfull most girls dont want any part of it . i aready have. been working fingers oral the whole nine yards just not alot of penetration but you know what despite all this she says she loves me and i belive her as far as the fake vagina naa thats not me dont mess with that stuff
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well my thinking is that i want to have sex with her[ penetration ]as any 19 year right? and she is going to college already she is a good and smart woman thats why i love her and i do want to marry her someday . but right now im not to sure if i want to have a sexless marriage [penetration wise .i live in the usa i dont think its a woman dominating country women are very liberal over here and i agree with you that blankcanvas gave me alot of good advise and have put that advise into action and my girl and i are pretty happy with the way we satisfy each other but as far as the penetration part theres alot of work to be done but thank you for your advise and your respond
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