Okay, I understand this might sound really odd but bear with me...

I'm 15 and have slightly large labia. I know that's normal though so I'm not upset about it, I understand every woman is different.
What bothers me is that they are uncomfortable.
It's hard to explain but basically, it feels like something is stuck in between them? And sometimes I literally have to pull them apart because I get very irritated. I know it sounds weird and hard to understand but basically I think its the lips being stuck together?
Now I have a few questions I desperately need answered because I have been putting up with this for 4 years!
1; Are all women like this but haven't noticed it as badly as I have?
2; Is it normal?
3; If not, should I go to a doctor about it?
4; And at the end of it all, should I consider surgery?

I know surgery wouldn't be a good option but honestly, I'm getting so annoyed and distraught with it all.