i have been having sex with the same guy for the past 8 months...i have never had a problem getting wet, and sex was always very enjoyable for me, but for some reason, recently, i dont get wet anymore...because of it sex becomes sooo painful that we usually have to stop. i am afraid that this is going to start bugging him and he will go look for it somewhere else...we have been having some problems with trust because he doesnt open up, i am thinking that i just dont feel comfortable anymore, how do i relax?? i really think that this could be phsychological, but i cant bring myself to get over this.