I have never been so unsure about anything in my life. For Valentine's Day and our anniversary, part of my gift was to have sex with him which is something we had been talking about for sometime...The problem is....he had some issues. One, once erect we were about to put the condom on and started but then he lost his erection really quickly. Has anyone heard of this and know why that would be? Another problem is that he really is not that big at all....not to be picking on him or anything, but it truthfully isn't. He had an issue with finding the hole to put it bluntly and so I led him to it yet when he started thrusting I could not feel anything such as him going in. I was told that my first time would hurt and I knew I should have at least felt some sort of pressure but I didn't. Has anyone ever had this happen to them? o.O I don't know what to do in the future when we want to have sex. I am going to stick with telling him that we did have sex to keep his confidence up because a friend said that maybe he was just nervous...but I am not sure. Any suggestions?
Hi. How old are you guys?
First - I would say if his penis entered your vagina you technically are not a virgin.
A guy having a problem staying hard before actual sex is VERY common actually - MUCH MUCH more than most people think or admit. It happens to guys of all ages. And - it usually only happens during actual sex, they have no problems staying hard while masturbating or 'making out'.
If you have never had sex you should have felt something when he was in you - it's hard to believe he could be THAT small unless you guys are A LOT younger than I am thinking.
If you choose to do it again in the future - just take your time...spend some time on foreplay...try different positions that may allow him to stay harder.
Good luck!
First - I would say if his penis entered your vagina you technically are not a virgin.
A guy having a problem staying hard before actual sex is VERY common actually - MUCH MUCH more than most people think or admit. It happens to guys of all ages. And - it usually only happens during actual sex, they have no problems staying hard while masturbating or 'making out'.
If you have never had sex you should have felt something when he was in you - it's hard to believe he could be THAT small unless you guys are A LOT younger than I am thinking.
If you choose to do it again in the future - just take your time...spend some time on foreplay...try different positions that may allow him to stay harder.
Good luck!