Here is the real truth. At 11 -13 Your body begins to change. Some earlier. It begins puberty. When this happens you are technicly ready for sex. The law on the other hand will tell you other wise and will try to convince you that you are not mentaly ready. Only you can decide this. No, rape and molestation is not exceptable any ware at any time. However, as a fully realised child of the Universe, i can tell you, You have the right at any time to decide whether you wish to engage in this kind of activity and with whom to do it with. This is what nature has givin to you, your body, your biological clock. Like i said before, the law and your parents May not agree with this principal, however this is the true reality that nature gave us as human beings. The law and christianity has brainwashed evrybody into believing that sex is bad, that young people arent ready, they cant know enough to make a decision, demonised it, criminalized it and Controled every one with fear. The fact is, it is human nature to experiment and explore. No one should hold you back from this when you think you are ready to do so. Look at the reality of whats really going on in the schools today. Dont lie to yourself. Its been going on for a millennia. Your not the first boy to get a hard on, or to look at another boy. Do some reaserch and you will see that in some countries and cultures it is perfectly exceptable to marry at 10. It used to be excepted to marry at 12 here and all the way back into the dark ages clear back as time can be traced. Reading, reasearching education is the best tool, for finding what will work best for you and making your decisions. Enjoy your bodies while your young, you only live once. Dont fear them. Dont let anyone else talk you into fear, Just remember to be responsible and to be stay safe.
I have sex with a blanket and it feels sooooo good. I also want to have sex too
The bible is FULL of sex, rape, adultery, sodomy, incest, etc.......so if you can translate it for yourself, it should REALLY get you riled up!
I also want to have sex (F 14) but I dont want to have certain consequences. I know the legal age is 16, I know the dangers and risks, I just want to have sex, where I'm from we don't have a lot of Christians or people going "read the bible" honestly most kids these days haven't even seen one, it's just used as a joke about radical Christians or about anything. I don't care about the "saving it for the right time" "you can only give it once" "wait for the right man" no I know your virginity is seen as something important but I just want to get over it because I know partners can come and go in a flash. I just want to be experienced for the one that stays. A small group of people I know have given me tips on how to get someone (they already were having sex around 11-13) to clarify I don't want it to seem cool, I hardly hang out with those kids and mainly the ones that frown at the thought. But I don't want to be called s***, or get STD's, for them to think that since I did it with them once they can do it with me whenever they want, I don't want a baby (yes I'd get them to wear a condom but just the thought of it having a rip or hole) that could ruin everything (obviously not on the pill because my age and all. Though some of my friends are on it because they have sex or medical reasons) and yes I'd get an abortion. When my family is out I feel like using an object to pleasure myself with because my fingers have long nails which I don't appreciate cutting just to finger myself. Once I almost did use an object after putting it in boiling water for an hour and putting a condom over it bit that "wait for it" thing came up because i wanted it to be an actual penis that broke my hymen and not an object and also the thought of having to clean up before my family got home was making me weary of when they were to return. It's just when I'm pleasuring my self and even after I just really want intercourse not just my fingers.