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I have had 4 children all c-section , after my first 3 were born I was walking the next day, and I walked out of the hospital looking like I had never even given birth. 6 years ago I came to Fl for what I was saposed to be 30-60 days tops, during the time I met my Now husband and father of my 4th child, Our chemistry was amazing, our sex life Great, & prior to getting pregnant with our now almost 4 yr old daughter ,I had been pregnant and we ended up losing a set of twins, My mom had always suggested the tubal ligation since my other 2 children's fathers are douce bags, ones doing life from a murder wrap, the other an extemley abusive and a sociapath. Well prior to having our beautiful daughter we got married, We were in love right? I was an exotic dancer with my own income & he was 10 years younger, Because our sex life was so great and the fact that my mom had been bothering to do it after each child, MY SCHEDULED C-SECTION & TUBAL LIGATION SURGERY WAS COMPLETELY BOTCHED, THIS ROUTINE PROCEDURE STARTHUSBANDT 2 PM AND END CLOSE TO 8 PM FROM THE NEEDLE BREAKING IN MY SPINE BEFORE IT WAS CATHIDERIZED , THEM HAVING TO DO THAT AGAIN, WHOOPY ANOTHER CRUNCHING SOUND AS A NEEDLE ENTERS MY SPINE TWICE., TO THEM GIVING ME A MEDICATION WITHOUT MY CONSENT WHILE MY DAUGHTER WAS STILL INSIDE ME THAT WAS A PARALYTIC THAT COULD OF KILLED HER, LEAVING MY GASTROINTESTINAL SYSTEM OUT, EXPOSED AND WASNT PUT BACK TOGETHER CORRECTLY , INFACT MY INTESTINES ARE TWISTED, I CANT DIGEST HARDLY THE MOST BASIC OF FOODS, MOSTLY IM ON A LIQUID DIET, IT HURTS EVERY DAY , ITS CLAIMED MY HEALTH, IT AFFECTS MY DAUGHTER, REGARDLESS IF I HAVE ALWAYS HATED MYSELF & HAD NO SELF-ESTEEM , BUT NOW LOOKING AT WHO I WAS AND WHAT I AM NOW , I REGRET THAT TUBAL LIGATION , LISTENING TO MY MOMSCONSTANT NAGGING TO GET A TUBAL LIGATION & LISTENING TO HER , , & ALSO WANTING TO PRESERVE THE AMAZING SEX LIFE IN MY MARRIGE, WELL MY DAUGHTER IS NEARING 4 YRS OLD & SINCE HAVING HER, MY HUSBAND HASNT EVEN HELD ME OR TOUCHED ME, I DONT REMEMBER WHAT ITS LIKE TO BE HELD BUT I KNOW I MISS IT, I FINALLY GOT THE TRUTH BECAUSE THE UPPER ABDOMINAL DISTENTION IS UNATTRACTIVE TO HIM AND REGARDLESS THOUGH ITS NOT MY FAULT , ITS THE TRUTH , HE CANT EVEN BRING HIMSELF TO SHOW ME AFFECTION FOR 4 YRS I FINALLY GOT HIM TO GIVE ME AN ANSWER, & IT HURTS HOW SUPERFICIAL HIS REASONS ARE FOR NOT EVEN HOLDING ME, REGARDLES IF I STILL GET HIT ON BY BOTH MENB& WOMEN HE CANT SHOW ME LOVE, THE REST OF MY BODY IS NORMAL AND ATTRACTIVE MY UPPER ABDOMEN IS DISTENDED AND ITS NOT ATTRACTIVE AND SEXY TO HIM, IM LONLEY ISOLATED BECAUSE I CHOSE TO STAY HERE WITH HIM INSTEAD OF RETURNING HOME, THE PHYSICAL RISKS OF A TUBAL LIGATION NOT ONLY HAS EXTREME PHYSICAL RISKS AND PAINFUL SIDE EFFECTS BUT THE EMOTIONAL RISKS R TEN TIME WORSE & WHAT IT DOES TO YOUR LIFE IS A,HURT PIECE I WOULDN'T WISH IT ON MY ENEMY..... Sorry so long! NyAsiaknows only the luv from my 3 yr old its really hard, I feel alone & my daughter keeps me going , I used to have the glimmer of hope about being held again, the hope is gone
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I even voiced these concerns & more to the dr & specifically asked if it could be post tubal ligation syndrome to which I got a big fat "NO, there's no such thing." I even went to Univ of Mich & was told the same thing. I'm to my wits end; can't lose weight, can't breathe right, bouts of high blood pressure, nausea, vomiting, dizziness, incontinence & recently had to undergo another surgery to repair the 3 umbilical hernias due to the dr removing the trochar improperly during TL surgery. It's all a total mess & these dr's need to listen & do a lil research if they're not familiar with PTLS because it is thing!!
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