My girlfriend and I wanted to make it relationship a but more intimate, she had no problem going down on me, and she said that she wants us to have sex, but she said she doesn't want me to finger her or give her oral sex. I want to pleasure her, so what do I say or do? Sites anyone know why she might not want me to?
Thanks
how small is it exactly?
I'm a woman and I am the same way your girlfriend is. Its because were scared it looks or smells weird and we're just embarrassed. What you should do is try to go down on her or finger her in the shower so at least the smell factor is cancelled out and she wont be worried about that. Doing things in the dark also might make her feel more comfortable