i noticed that when i have sex i dont really pAy attention i just think about stuff is this bad
What sort of bad stuff are you thinking of?
I just try to think about something else besides whats happening. I don't feel any feelings.
It could be because of a bad experience you try to distance your self from hun
I guess so. That makes sense
What you have to do is put what ever the experience was behind you and try to focus on enjoying the pleasure being given.
I know it won't be easy and will take time but i think you will get over it if you remain strong :-)
I know it won't be easy and will take time but i think you will get over it if you remain strong :-)
:) thanks I will
You know you shouldn't be having sex at 13! You are blocking out what is happening because you know it is wrong.
You should not be giving advice to a 13-year-old to focus on enjoying sex, particularly not knowing the circumstances concerning the legality of the matter.
You dont know her full story to why she disassociates herself shepherd999 like i have found out and in not telling her to in ahead and have sex im saying what she has been through will take time to get over!
Dont criticise other people for there advice when you dont know the full situation.
Dont criticise other people for there advice when you dont know the full situation.
I do know, and to tell her to "try to focus on enjoying the pleasure being given" when having sex is not helping her!
I'm okay really...